From set 1 to set 186, I have managed to close 7 numbers. Each number from 1 upto my 7th, I have learnt alot along the way and, made mistakes.
This post is a micro analysis of each of those numbers and, what to do during set to make it solid, the number that is e.g so it dun flake.
1st No. did charisma and, charm through cold read and, story telling.
What I did not do is sexual tension, ground the set and, qualification questions.
End result: Got a reply to my ping text, she wanted a friend.
2nd No. did charisma and, charm through cold read and, story telling.
What I did not do is same as above.
End result: she ghosted me (no reply to my ping text), vacuumed for 48 hrs, no reply, vacuumed for 1 week, no reply.
3rd No. did charisma, charm and, sexual tension.
What I did not do is ground the set and, qualify her… and, she didn’t play along with the maradona move.
End result: she ghosted me.
4th No. did charisma, charm, sexual tension.
What I did not do is ground the set and, qualify.
End result: she ghosted me.
5th No. Did charisma, charm, sexual tension, grounded the set.
Did not qualify her, and strong hand shake like a job interview on the maradona move.
End result: she ghosted me.
6th No. Done charisma, charm, sexual tension, grounded the set and, qualified her.
End result: she was looking for a boyfriend or friend, she couldn’t decide as she just broke up with her long term boyfriend. I went overt with my intentions of casual sex over the text.
Lesson learnt: when shit tested always ignore and, change the subject matter, then if she presse’s, agree and, be overt with your intentions.
The game is played in the implied (covert communication) not the overt. If you have to be overt with your communication style then you have lost and, she has won the battle.
7th No. work in progress, will keep you updated, thus to say was a solid set.
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