Comfort is King
Author: ozidaygamer
Aspiring Day Gamer.
Hook Point
If you find it hard reaching hook point then forget technique.
Work on your value first. Most of your value on the street comes down to not being over weight.
Excerpt from Steve Jabba’s book ‘Primal Seduction’ below;
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Was reading Nick Krauser’s ‘Daygame Infinite’ book the other day. I stumbled across this!
Why other coaches are full of shit.
Why Nick Krauser’s work stands the test of time.
Comfort time is King
I just wanted to write a post about a few things in particular. These things have been proven in my eyes with a particular girl that I have been dating from Daygame.
1. As written by Chris Odom in the book ‘Revelations’. He says on a date you want to be outcome independent and just see were things go naturally.
I think this inner game mindset is very, very powerful because it allows the girl to feel comfortable with you and, try and make a connection.
The Mystery Method spoke about 7 hours being the average but to be fair its more like 14 on average.
Contrary to public opinion you can trade your way out of the friendzone if you get put in there. I have done this before.
I noticed that there has always been this big debate about direct vs indirect. I think most guys are focused on the smaller picture.
The bigger picture is more important. Actually its fundamental to female biology. That is a women needs to feel comfortable with you to sleep with you.
Most guys think with their dick and, don’t see it from her point of view or natures point of view.
If guys just adhered to minimum 2+ dates before they started escalating then I think his results would go up.
This whole idea about ‘what do I say’ is also missing the point. If a girl is not interested in sleeping with you then she will NOT shit test you.
Every girl has her timeline when it comes to feeling comfortable with you.
Think of the girl. Put the girl first. Yes thats right put her front and centre first before yourself. She will think ‘fuck this guy is not such a wierd cunt after all’. She’ll probably even sleep with you at some point.
Whether it takes 2 dates or 10. Does it matter. As long as she’s still hanging around with you. She thinks your a cool guy.
Cool guys get laid. Wankers don’t.
Just my thoughts.
Less is more
One of the things I’m starting to realise with women is the concept of ● Less is more.
● Social comes before sexual
● Comfort comes before Seduction
● When you spike infer it. 2 x Comfort 1 x spike = 2 steps backwsrds, 1 step forwards
● Seduction stage 2 x spike 1 x Comfort = 2 steps forwards, 1 step backwards
● Speak less. Parrot and Vacuum more especially on dates
● Do Deep connection before Seduction
● Hold the frame. Don’t lean in. Turn of.
● I.O.D before you I.O.I
Infer your intent, don’t go overt.
Etc. You get the point.
Boy girl syndrome. Boy rejects girl, girl chases boy.
Date 3 w / Indonesian girl
This is my third date with a 26 Indonesian girl. She definitely fits the category of YHT.
Did a side stop on her in the china town food court mall area.
It was towards the end of the day on Saturday 5:30 ish.
She lit up like a christmas tree to my Daygame skill set.
First date did the usual stuff. No proximity. No hand hold.
Date two touched her ankle sock as we sat in the library. She recoiled slightly.
Date three went to the beach and fed the seagulls. Proximity was on. Hand hold was on. From there she allowed me to kino her over the course of the day and night. Almost got the kiss. Eyes kept looking away after eye contact. Not at my lips.
Did all the verbal escalation stuff. She responded well to it on date 3.
Big lesson learnt from this girl;
“The game is played in comfort” The Mystery Method.
Being sociable is more important then being sexual. Being sexual comes second.
Always hold the frame. Avoid leaning in at all times. She will test. But let her close the proximity. She will do this slowly over time and after some sufficient testing.
Each girl has their own level of comfort time before they start to trust you.
The average being 2 to 3 dates if not an SDL.
Maybe upto 4 to 5 for some other types of girls.
I hope my experience helps you.
Biggest lesson to take away. Keep jumping in front of those girls with ‘The London Front Stop’.
2 things about Daygame
Had a discussion with my wing today as we did some sets. Forgot my train of thought. Then messaged him later about it.
Comfort
This post is about comfort time and the love bubble.
On the back end dating I think women are attracted to romance or aka the love bubble. Most guys cant give that. Most guys can only give cock or provider stuff.
I notice girls crave the movie moment on a date. Bounce lead bounce lead. Test proximity. Kiss.
They are all movie moments.
The other thing I noticed on the back end is being as socially normal as possible.
Women love socially normal guys. The more you do social stuff with her and the less you try sexual stuff with her it builds the anticipation of sex occuring at some point in the future.
Women love this feeling.
You dont seek an outcome and her love juices bubble while you reframe from sexual overtones. Hence the anticipation going up in her mind.
Women are natural at the feeling of sex. Its automatic. So I advocate doing less. Matter of fact do nothing. Let her heat up in her love juices. She’s automatically doing it for you.
All you have to do is walk around with her and do shit. Wait for the proxy close and hold her hand.
No proximity. No hand hold.
Means no physicality from her. Its never gonna happen. Sex that is. She doesnt see you as sexually attractive. Let her go. Next!!!
But
if she allows proximity then hand hold will occur automatically. Then kiss close. Your on your way 😉
The trick is to walk her around like a puppy dog.
Rack up time in comfort.
The average being 7 hours according to The Mystery Method.
Daygame in Melbourne
How to spot a Time waster
I’ve been on a few dates now and I think I can spot a timewaster.
Try this next time your on a date. Go quiet. Say nothing. Silence will give you the answer.
She will do one of three things;
1. She will continue to talk alot like a motor mouth and not allow you to fill the gaps. When she runs out of things to say she will then vacuum you. This is her trying to qualify you. It’s a subtle frame battle. =
Shes a timewaster.
2. She asks you a question to fill the silence. This means she is a genuine girl who is genuinely attracted to you. She will usually have a two way conversation with you. =
Maybe or Yes girl
3. She does not invest. She allows the silence to continue. Shes ok with the silence dragging on for a long time. =
No girl
This type of girl has either got a boyfriend and is not willing to upgrade OR she is not attracted to you. She just wants free attention from a push over beta.
Now with that knowledge in mind, go forth and multiply 😁
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