Category: Coaching

Comfort

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Coaching, Mindwank

This post is about comfort time and the love bubble.

On the back end dating I think women are attracted to romance or aka the love bubble. Most guys cant give that. Most guys can only give cock or provider stuff.

I notice girls crave the movie moment on a date. Bounce lead bounce lead. Test proximity. Kiss.

They are all movie moments.

The other thing I noticed on the back end is being as socially normal as  possible.

Women love socially normal guys. The more you do social stuff with her and the less you try sexual stuff with her it builds the anticipation of sex occuring at some point in the future.

Women love this feeling.

You dont seek an outcome and her love juices bubble while you reframe from sexual overtones. Hence the anticipation going up in her mind.

Women are natural at the feeling of sex. Its automatic. So I advocate doing less. Matter of fact do nothing. Let her heat up in her love juices. She’s automatically doing it for you.

All you have to do is walk around with her and do shit. Wait for the proxy close and hold her hand.

No proximity. No hand hold.

Means no physicality from her. Its never gonna happen. Sex that is. She doesnt see you as sexually attractive. Let her go. Next!!!

But

if she allows proximity then hand hold will occur automatically. Then kiss close. Your on your way 😉

The trick is to walk her around like a puppy dog.

Rack up time in comfort.

The average being 7 hours according to The Mystery Method.

In memory of Tom Torero.

How to spot a Time waster

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Coaching, Field Report, Mindwank

I’ve been on a few dates now and I think I can spot a timewaster.

Try this next time your on a date. Go quiet. Say nothing. Silence will give you the answer.

She will do one of three things;

1. She will continue to talk alot like a motor mouth and not allow you to fill the gaps. When she runs out of things to say she will then vacuum you. This is her trying to qualify you. It’s a subtle frame battle. =

Shes a timewaster.

2. She asks you a question to fill the silence. This means she is a genuine girl who is genuinely attracted to you. She will usually have a two way conversation with you. =

Maybe or Yes girl

3. She does not invest. She allows the silence to continue. Shes ok with the silence dragging on for a long time. =

No girl

This type of girl has either got a boyfriend and is not willing to upgrade OR she is not attracted to you. She just wants free attention from a push over beta.

Now with that knowledge in mind, go forth and multiply 😁

No hoper set yesterday!

Secret Tells

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Coaching, Mindwank

I’ve been doing Pickup Artistry through Daygame for about 3 years now. I have learnt and internalised the London Daygame Model.

Here’s what I have learnt from chatting up women during the day.

Girls communicate in a secret language cloaked in logic and, rationale but it’s far from it.

Their language is abit like Morse code. To use the e.g each series of taps represents a coded message. A message that I as a guy have to figure out. Maybe like a riddle.

Communicating with women is like learning a new language.

It’s taken me 3 years to learn it.

The trick to learning this new secretive language is to learn and do the London Daygame Model over and over again. At least 1000 sets it takes before shit starts dawning on you.

Here are some e.g’s of some secret tells ;

● Girls eyes sparkle and crackle in set

● She allows the space to be encroached

● She allows incidental light touching

● She asks you a question

● She giggles and, laughs during the set

● She invests during the set and over texts

Steve Jabba who is a legend in the Pick Up Artist world calls this “The Secret Society”.

Over the texting it’s similar. That is the secret language they speak.

For e.g a girl says “I’m looking for a boyfriend” decoded means ‘I’m looking for trust and connection’.

I could go on at length with more e.g’s.

The answer to all your problems with women is to practice and nail the ‘London Front Stop’.

The Tom Torero version works the best. You wheel around the girl slowly from a distance. Abit like a boomarang slowly spinning into the front position of the girl.

Anyways give it a go. Good luck 😊

Me decoding their language!