About my first date and, what I learnt.
It’s been over a year now and, I suppose I’m ok with writing up my sordid liaisons with the women I met from Daygame.
I’ll start with the very first women I ended up sleeping with.
This post will be in 2 parts. First part will be the field report. Second part will be about the lay.
It was around a year ago on a Thursday. It was a wintry cold evening at my local supermarket. Just after 7:30pm I noticed the crowds would disperse and, go home for dinner, leaving only the single people about to do their shopping.
I thought I’d do some twighlight game.
I was walking past the isles looking for a girl to chat up. There weren’t many women at this time to choose from. There were alot of construction worker type guys hanging out in groups and, pairs doing their shopping. I felt the spotlight effect from these guys and, my Approach Anxiety went up a gear.
I was thinking to myself how shit is this. It’s cold, late, not many women around. Not many women that are worthy enough for a pickup attempt. They all were pretty ordinary looking. Then I noticed this Milf in an isle. My DNA tug was triggered.
She was wearing long black fuck me boots. She had curly fair hair and, was lanky looking. I just remember checking out her ass. She had this nice love heart shaped ass wrapped in tight black work pants.
She was just standing there bent over looking at something. There was only one problem. There were 2 burly looking blokes in her isle doing their shopping. The AA went up a gear.
I decided to start my breathing technique to combat my AA. I did a full tour of the supermarket before coming back around again.
5 minutes later I passed her isle. She was still standing there. Still on her own. Best of all the 2 guys that were in her isle had vanished. It was like a sign from the Daygame gods to approach.
I had a hunch that she was ovulating because she was just meandering there on the spot with no where to go.
So I went in. Walked straight upto her and, opened.
She was still bent over to the the side of me looking at coffee. I was thinking god that ass is so nice. I just want to grab it and, slap it.
She came up and was still gorking at the coffee like she hadn’t noticed that I was right there. I think she might have been lost in her own world.
I then opened. I said “did you find the right coffee”. She faced me, smiled and, gave me 2+ secs of eye contact. She answered and, proceeded to tell me how many there were to choose from. She said it with a slight giggle underneath her voice and, a slight cheeky smile.
I knew I had an attracted girl on my hands. She looked in her late 40’s, kept her figure in great shape and, had a descent looking face.
I introduced myself with the floppy hand test. She passed. She let me hold her floppy hand for around 5 secs before politely sliding away.
I then went into my 1, 2, 3 routine.
1. Mild compliment
2. Say something quirky about what you see and, twist it
3. Listen for the topic and, riff off it. Combine this with the tease.
I think I said this “You look very, very nice. What I noticed about you is that you remind me of a ginger cat dressed in black. Am I right?”
She said that she was looking to stack up on heaps of coffee for a country rock concert she was attending on the weekend.
So I said “When I think of a ginger cat all in black, looking for coffee….I think that’s a bit wierd….a bit odd….cause I never knew ginger cats can drink coffee.”
She said with a big smile and, slight laugh, “I don’t know what coffee to buy thou”.
I said “Well I think it’s your hair and, black boots”. I touched her hair when I said it. She loved it.
I then said “ginger cats can’t drink coffee cause they have tiny paws and, cant hold the coffee cup.”
She was smiling and, laughing. She then proceeded to tell me why she thought she was into coffee and, why she had fair ginger hair. Bingo, I had investment.
I then went into the standard comfort stuff. 3 things about me. 3 things about her. I then looked into her eyes and, said “you have nice eyes…they sparkle abit”. She cooed and, smiled again”.
I was still nervous at this point so I decided to bail. I closed her out and, got her number.
I said “I gotta go, looks like you gotta go….but another time….I’d like to invite you out for a coffee.”
When I got home from that set, I waited a couple of hours then texted her at around 10pm. She replied about 20 minutes later with investment.
I thought awesome. Things were looking good.
Texts were exchanged through out the week. We went back and forth until we settled on a date for Friday night coffee. It was pretty straight forward the texting. I thought she could be a yes girl.
The other thing that was bizaar was that she said yes to coffee at night. I thought definitely a yes girl.
I met her at this Bar restaurant type venue at around 9pm.
I said let’s get a wine instead as it was a bit late for coffee. She agreed. Great sign from the Daygame gods.
End of field report. Next post will be about this date, the second date and, the lay.
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Just Instant dated a young Russian broad. Early 20’s ish. Absolute stunner.
She was dressed like Audrey Hepburn, so that was my tease.
Pulled her for a tea / hot choco venue. She said she had a boyfriend as I was leading.
I said “I don’t wanna be your boyfriend, but thanks for asking”.
Cracker of a date. I noticed the hair twirl and, eye mesmer. She closed the proximity on the walk.
Allowed some very light kino.
I just did deep connection rapport stuff.
No verbal escalation as she was so stunning I was scared shitless of how hot she was.
She looked dissapointed when I had to go at the end of it.
Number closed her for whatsapp.
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Had been sarging all day on Saturday and, it was the last set of the day.
Weather is a little bit wintery at the moment. This asian girl walks past with the most revealing gym knicker tights, upto her arse.
Revealing her entire fit legs upto her butt. Nice firm arse as well. Not to big, not to small, nice and, bunn like, like a burger bunn.
Worked up the courage to do a cold approach, london front stop on her.
She hooked immediately off the stop. How do I know?
She eye sparkled, smiled, was giggly and, the most important crucial tell tale sign!!….was she just stood there. She seemed like she had no place to be at in an immediate hurry. She just hung around and, stood there as I opened her.
She invested in the set like she had no where to go. She talked like she was really easy going and, open. Like she had the time and, day to have a yarn with you in the middle of a busy city centre street. That was out of place for the context we were in.
She reminded me of someone who is from the country. People from the country usually have the same characteristics.
That is they;
1. Chat with you about anything.
2. They are more open to having a yarn about nothing.
3. They smile alot and, are generally pretty friendly compared to city folk.
4. They usually will make time for you and, generally aren’t in a rush like city slickers are.
She had all these signs and, asked me a question on the open. So I knew I’d hooked early.
I did some comfort talk in the set then closed her for an Idate. She complied very easily.
Took her for hot chocolate late at around 5pm.
Bounced her for a walk in the park.
Here is the BIG thing; she was rubbing up against me as we walked side by side. Green light for she was closing the proximity on me.
I just held her hand, like she was my girlfriend at this point. She reciprocated easily.
Walk her through the park and, noticed she kept looking at my eyes.
Stopped, turned her to face me, held both her hands, looked into her eyes, said nothing. Waited for her to look down at my lips. It took her 10 seconds, then I went in for the kiss.
We sucked face on and, off through out the walk about 3 to 4 times.
It was on the 4th make out that my hands started to wonder down to her lovely arse. That’s when the LMR came up.
She said in a very lovely way, “I’m not sure if I can do this, I apologize”.
I used an anti LMR line from Tom Torero. “No no it’s me, I’m moving way to fast….this is way to fast….I don’t normally do this….move this fast.”
I rolled off, walked her to the city centre, number closed her and, got a nice kiss tongue and, all good bye. 🙂
Was it an SNL, SDL?
Leave a comment and, let me know.
Her shorts were literally that short. She had short hair.
Tomorrow I have a Date 1 lined up with an American HB8.
Street stop: Hand was floppy, proximity was allowed and, eyes were on.
She also invested.
Over the texting, she invested alot and, asked me out for a date. Don’t know if the polarity is fucked or not. Will find out on the date as I’m gonna run seduction only.
Why you ask seduction only….!!!
Why not deep connection and, comfort like what’s written in The Mystery Method.
Mystery’s 7 hour rule on comfort covers about 2 dates, maybe 3.
Like cricket, your bowling and, batting according to the weather conditions. In particular the pitch.
Let me give the analogy first and, then the Daygame theory.
In cricket if the pitch is wet then the ball will bounce of the surface in all soughts of wild directions. Hence making it hard for the batsman to score runs and, stay in.
This makes it easier for the bowler to get the batsman out and, stop runs from being scored.
Of course if the opposite weather conditions are true then the dry pitch suits the batsman and, not the bowler.
In Daygame there’s this concept of R/K theory. K meaning the girl doesn’t root outside a monogamous relationship.
R meaning she does.
I think this girl is a yes girl. I think she’s R.
Like Tom Torero says in his book Street Hustle “You got to burn your boats mission”.
He means fearless, relentless escalation. As the PUA Sixty Years of Challenge wrote.
I’ll let you know how I go. That is whether I crash and, burn or, I hit a home run?!
Today did a sarge in the city Melbourne.
13 sets / 5 hooks / 2 numbers.
Was waiting for a date to contact me for a Date 1. She flaked again.
Was doing sets in the city anyways.
Discovered that on grounding, you tell a story about what your currently doing.
I said that I was looking for a T shirt as I didn’t like the current one I had on.
Women love dressing guys. They always recommend a shop nearby.
Great topic for grounding the set.
Not like this American girl I stopped today. Had purple hair. Was nice.
Was sarging on the Saturday.
Got a solid number feeler reply and, an Instant date. Iranian girl, looked 19 – 21, was actually 36. Blew my mind.
She had all the ovulating signs on the pre-approach checklist.
Hooked and, had a 10 minute interaction in the street.
Pulled her for a 20 minute cohhee. Ran some verbal escalation on her. Ran some kino on her.
Walked her to the park. Ran some more verbal escalation.
Then walked her to a English style pub. I realize women try to put me in the boyfriend box when I run deep connection material. So on this date I tried to keep it in the man-women frame by verbally escalating.
Lead her to the second alcohol venue. This one was darker etc.
She bought the second round. The house wine was shite by the way. Ran some compliance and, tried for the floppy test but the seating was fucked.
I whispered into her ear that I wanted to kiss her, but no success. Tried twice over the space of 15 minutes.
Walked her back to the station after that and, bailed on her half way. Said I have to meet someone but another time etc (number close).
She tried to snatch the frame back by that stage by saying that she was looking for a relationship.
I said I’m only looking for something casual.
We did the pleasantries, no number, and parted ways.
1. Realized that women will close the proximity on you as she starts to feel more comfortable with you. Happened on the second alcohol venue.
2. It’s a verbal silent wrestling match on the verbals. Frame battle.
3. The furtherest I’ve been on running the train for an SDL.
4. Had no F location between the coffee date and, walk in the park.
Overall, I’m hooking 1 / 3 sets.
I’m Instant dating or number closing 1 / 6 sets.
And, I’m doing Attraction on street and, Seduction on date.
Overall BIG improvement on my skills set from 6 months ago.
You learn from the pain that comes from failure and, it makes you sharper in your skills set.
Just something to look at and, Persian. The ayatollahs would be pissed!
I was Daygaming yesterday and I, ran into a guy I knew from when I was 16.
Anyways we start talking about the past, present etc and, I drop in at the end of the conversation that I do Daygame.
He soughtta knows a tiny bit about this stuff. He points to this YHT and, indicates what about her.
So I approach, do my thing. It was a cold approach and, a I got politely rejected but I hang on for a little bit with some teasing and, challenging.
After the set I go back to him and, he talks to me for a little bit and, asks me some questions about it all.
Like what did you say, how do you do that etc.
He then says to me “how do you think she felt about a complete random stranger approaching her…who she doesn’t know?”.
I didn’t really answer him. I just kept the chit chat polite.
The point is this; Tom Torero talks about empathy for women in one of his video products and, how it’s a mating strategy used by nice guys.
Tom goes onto talk about how women are not attracted to empathy. Instead their attracted to guys who are selfish and, freely emote how they feel. Not giving a shit about what her or others think. It’s a dominant trait Tom goes onto say.
Most men believe in being self effacing and, empathetic with women. They believe it’s a winning strategy. ‘Winner winner chicken dinner’.
Tom says “nice makes girls sick”.
Anyways these are my thoughts on an interaction I had with a typical blue pill beta and, how most guys are like him.
That’s the reason why guys are loosing the war to nazi feminists and, fascist men alike.
Can I drink your bath water?!
I’ve been doing Daygame for about 1 full year now and, I realised something today when I was sarging…..
listen for the topic and, riff off, of it until you hook?!.!?!
I’m a fucking dumb ass!
Just thought you should know.
Was hooking like mad today which included a early 20’s russian broad.
I was in Daygame heaven today.
Younger then her….Russian.
I just wanted to make a post about the ‘London Day Game Model’. In particular the “London front stop”.
I was out sarging on saturday and, I was trying to perfect the ‘front stop’.
I discovered 3 things that gets over looked.
1. CUT IN; You get eye from the side as you wheel around, hand comes out for stop signal, you say “excuse me”.
This is the important part coming up….you break the girls momentum with the eye contact so she’s about to stop. This is were you cut into square up to the girl so your front on. VERY BIG LEARNING POINT.
This is the point right here and, what smashes your AA and, increases your confidence on the street. This I believe is what seperates the men from the boys and, makes you a true ‘Daygamer’.
2. A small number of girls will crack a smile and, be beaming with excitement with whats about to come out of your mouth (the mild compliment) before you have delivered it.
Note; this suggests a “yes girl” or a “strong maybe girl”.
3. If you have to catch up to a girl that triggers your “fuck she’s hot sense” then walk up to her and, try to close the distance before you start your run up.
This is so that the approach is more under the radar and, doesn’t trigger a cock block or white knight calling the cops on you. (Yes I have had that happen and, I’m still here, still alive and, day gaming).
That’s it; over and out from the aussie dude daygamer.
Credit Tom Torero and, Nick Krauser for the London front stop.