Category: First Dates
All the dates I have had after the number close.
Lay Report Part 2
It was a Friday night. I was waiting at the local tavern restaurant type establishment. I was waiting for the Milf to arrive. She was about 15 minutes late.
She soon arrived. She apologized for being late. She said she had been kept back at the office. It was a good sign to start the date.
I said it’s a bit late for coffee, let’s get a couple of drinks. Do you drink wine. She said sure, good idea. Another great sign that she was up for it that night.
I said do you drink red or white. She preferred red so I said hold these seats and, I’ll get us two house wines in the red colour.
We sat down with our wines and preceeded to fill each other in on our life stories. Past present and, future is what is referred to in Game as ‘deep connection’.
After we finished our first round, I suggested that we proceed to the pub across the road. Sure enough, she was up for it. So I lead her across the road to the pub on the corner.
She ordered her meal and, I ordered another round of drinks. This time she was up for a sparkling white wine and, she paid for it.
Great sign of investment. Any time a girl invests is a sure sign that she genuinely is attracted to you. The evening was looking good.
We chatted more, while I started to kino, and do verbal escalation.
She was into it all. Half way through her meal she got up and, said that she had to go to the bathroom. Another great sign. Means that she’s pampering up her face to get ready for some action.
We left the venue and, I decided to lead by holding her hand. She loved it and, started resting her head on my left shoulder.
In a book written by 60 years of challenge he talks about how the hands of a women don’t lie. If she gives you her hand and, you mutually caress it and, she does the same back to you. Then it’s a sure sign that she’s into you.
If she does not give you her hand, then you are getting tooled.
She also was closing the proximity on me as I was holding her hand. She did this by snuggling up to me as we walked back to the car.
I decided to go in for the kiss. Bingo she loved it and, we started french kissing. She was really good at twirling her tongue around my tongue. It was fucking awesome and, I was thinking how good is this. Only by doing Daygame do you get these privileges.
By the way, just a note on her dress. Long black zip up fuck me boots, sexy as hell, and a tight pair of dark blue denim jeans to accentuate her ass and curves. I leaned in and, smelt her neck. She smelt like strawberries mixed with vanilla. I was thinking what a fucking great night I’m having.
The mission in my head was to get my first lay from Game and to prove all this mind wank stuff REALLY works. To also get my first reference experience with banging a chick from Daygame.
It was all starting to come together. All the pieces of the puzzle as layed out in Nick Krauser’s books and, more importantly the GREAT Tom Torero. May he rest in peace. I consider him to be the Godfather of Daygame in my book with a close equal Nick Krauser.
Just before I go back to the story, I have to note that this opportunity would not be possible, not even considered back in my chode days.
Yes I’m going to admit it. I was a chode and, had a purity fantasy about women for most of my life. Now I realize how wrong I am and, how right guys (Kings) like Krauser and, Torero are on the biology between Men and, Women.
Back to the story, there I was walking hand in hand, kissing her tongue deep. As I was kissing her, I thought of this dark alley way I knew off on the way.
So I walked her there and, into the shadows of this quiet dark lane way. I pushed her up against the wall and, stiff armed her throat. She lit up with a big beaming smile. Her eyes glazed over her. She looked like she was high on cocaine. I then proceeded to kiss her. We french kissed for a bit. I put my hand on the top of her head and, pushed her down to indicate what would happen next.
She got the hint and…….
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Field lay report
It’s been over a year now and, I suppose I’m ok with writing up my sordid liaisons with the women I met from Daygame.
I’ll start with the very first women I ended up sleeping with.
This post will be in 2 parts. First part will be the field report. Second part will be about the lay.
Field report:
It was around a year ago on a Thursday. It was a wintry cold evening at my local supermarket. Just after 7:30pm I noticed the crowds would disperse and, go home for dinner, leaving only the single people about to do their shopping.
I thought I’d do some twighlight game.
I was walking past the isles looking for a girl to chat up. There weren’t many women at this time to choose from. There were alot of construction worker type guys hanging out in groups and, pairs doing their shopping. I felt the spotlight effect from these guys and, my Approach Anxiety went up a gear.
I was thinking to myself how shit is this. It’s cold, late, not many women around. Not many women that are worthy enough for a pickup attempt. They all were pretty ordinary looking. Then I noticed this Milf in an isle. My DNA tug was triggered.
She was wearing long black fuck me boots. She had curly fair hair and, was lanky looking. I just remember checking out her ass. She had this nice love heart shaped ass wrapped in tight black work pants.
She was just standing there bent over looking at something. There was only one problem. There were 2 burly looking blokes in her isle doing their shopping. The AA went up a gear.
I decided to start my breathing technique to combat my AA. I did a full tour of the supermarket before coming back around again.
5 minutes later I passed her isle. She was still standing there. Still on her own. Best of all the 2 guys that were in her isle had vanished. It was like a sign from the Daygame gods to approach.
I had a hunch that she was ovulating because she was just meandering there on the spot with no where to go.
So I went in. Walked straight upto her and, opened.
She was still bent over to the the side of me looking at coffee. I was thinking god that ass is so nice. I just want to grab it and, slap it.
She came up and was still gorking at the coffee like she hadn’t noticed that I was right there. I think she might have been lost in her own world.
I then opened. I said “did you find the right coffee”. She faced me, smiled and, gave me 2+ secs of eye contact. She answered and, proceeded to tell me how many there were to choose from. She said it with a slight giggle underneath her voice and, a slight cheeky smile.
I knew I had an attracted girl on my hands. She looked in her late 40’s, kept her figure in great shape and, had a descent looking face.
I introduced myself with the floppy hand test. She passed. She let me hold her floppy hand for around 5 secs before politely sliding away.
I then went into my 1, 2, 3 routine.
1. Mild compliment
2. Say something quirky about what you see and, twist it
3. Listen for the topic and, riff off it. Combine this with the tease.
I think I said this “You look very, very nice. What I noticed about you is that you remind me of a ginger cat dressed in black. Am I right?”
She said that she was looking to stack up on heaps of coffee for a country rock concert she was attending on the weekend.
So I said “When I think of a ginger cat all in black, looking for coffee….I think that’s a bit wierd….a bit odd….cause I never knew ginger cats can drink coffee.”
She said with a big smile and, slight laugh, “I don’t know what coffee to buy thou”.
I said “Well I think it’s your hair and, black boots”. I touched her hair when I said it. She loved it.
I then said “ginger cats can’t drink coffee cause they have tiny paws and, cant hold the coffee cup.”
She was smiling and, laughing. She then proceeded to tell me why she thought she was into coffee and, why she had fair ginger hair. Bingo, I had investment.
I then went into the standard comfort stuff. 3 things about me. 3 things about her. I then looked into her eyes and, said “you have nice eyes…they sparkle abit”. She cooed and, smiled again”.
I was still nervous at this point so I decided to bail. I closed her out and, got her number.
I said “I gotta go, looks like you gotta go….but another time….I’d like to invite you out for a coffee.”
When I got home from that set, I waited a couple of hours then texted her at around 10pm. She replied about 20 minutes later with investment.
I thought awesome. Things were looking good.
Texts were exchanged through out the week. We went back and forth until we settled on a date for Friday night coffee. It was pretty straight forward the texting. I thought she could be a yes girl.
The other thing that was bizaar was that she said yes to coffee at night. I thought definitely a yes girl.
I met her at this Bar restaurant type venue at around 9pm.
I said let’s get a wine instead as it was a bit late for coffee. She agreed. Great sign from the Daygame gods.
End of field report. Next post will be about this date, the second date and, the lay.
Buy me a coffee
Helps me bring you infield results.
Date night….some no.
Had a date last night. She was definatly 2 points higher then my value.
28 Thai girl, looked 21, beautiful hair, always a lovely smile, cum fuck me eyes.
Got the kiss.
Lots of Kino.
This post is just about proof that Daygame gives you access to girls that are “YHT”.
Credit to:
Nick Krauser
Tom Torero
Steve Jabba
And, all the other London Daygame guys.
All smiles from the Aussie Daygamer.
Happy easter to all you Daygamers out there, getting it done!
Date Night, Japanese girl
Had a date 1 coffee filter date with a K Japanese girl.
Analysis;
1. Deep connection = tick
2. Lead = tick
3. Eyes = tick
4. Verbal escalation;
● Men and women be friends: tick
● Why are you single: had a boyfriend
● What type of guys do you date: tick
● 3 things I like in a girl: ASD on second hair smell attempt. Shoes to underwear verbal was a pass. Lipstick test was a fail as she had a mask on.
● What do you do for fun: tick
● What are your guilty pleasures: tick
● When was last time you had sex: “2 years ago with my boyfriend”
Then I started talking about vibrators.
She was pretty ok with that question. Big tick.
Sat down at the park bench side by side. Proximity was of. Legs crossed away from me so negative body language. So I lead her back to the train station. I decided to ‘Push’ her away and, cut the date short. I lead her to the train station, said I have to go, nice to meet you, gave her a kiss on the cheek. She allowed it, green light. She was suprised and, wanted to continue to follow but I said if you go that way, that will take you home, I have to go.
Looked nothing like her. Date was a HB 8. Can you see the nipple!
Polarity
Went on a date last night with this 8ish Filipino girl 26. She had a body like on the special k commercial. Lot’s of AI’s dreamy eyes etc. Massive smiles.
I want to talk about how women shit test you right of the bat. They start to shit test you over the text when your teeing up the meet.
What I learnt about the right frame is this?
Women are like cats and, the man is the master or cat owner so to speak.
In the context of a date; the cat serves it’s owner with affection etc.
In return the owner looks after the cat and, has it’s best welfare at heart.
The owner does not serve the cat. The owner does not go to the cat. The cat comes to the owner while the owner is doing their own thing.
The owner either furnishes the cat with affection or not based on their own mood.
Simply put, he is the master and, he is in control of what happens to the cat.
Just something to think about next time your on a date with a broad.
You set the meet place, venues etc, not her.
You tell her “no”.
You tell her “were doing xyz”.
It’s your way or the highway.
Similar look to her…dressed in tight black dress up to her butt almost.
Date night outcome
So just continuing on from previous post.
Had date 1 in park with a hot American. First I’ll write up what was bad about the date in terms of applying game principles.
Then I’ll write up what was good about it all.
Bad: First off, she talked to much, was walking fast and, was generally trying to lead at stages in the date.
Polarity was alittle bit fucked.
I got stuck in rapport, deep connection stuff because she lead the conversation down that path.
I just went along with it because she was so fucking nice. I suppose I was in public and, was afraid to be a bit adversarial with her.
She was genuinely a nice person. This was disarming for me. I just melted into being somewhat of a nice guy 😐.
She had a trip booked the next morning so she couldn’t stay out all night.
This dude she had a trip booked with was married and, a long time friend. Bit fucked I thought.
The Good: She had all the signs of a R select women. She’s 35.
She invested alot.
She allowed all my kino ☺
She invited me to venue 2 for a second round of drinks.
She allowed a close of proximity and, kiss on the cheek when first greeting her.
She allowed me to do this again when I was trying for the kiss on the departure end of date.
She allowed me to do some verbal escalation at the end of date.
Conclusion:
I got in some verbal escalation i e
Why are you single?
What type of guys do you date, bad guys, good guys?
What are some of your guilty pleasures?
Manage to kino ie
Some hands, not alot. Tattoos alot. Hair.
Floppy test was fucked as she was always trying to sit opposite me. Maybe it was the virus shit coming back again.
She had the mask on at the tram stop when I was gonna verbalise the kiss. Then her tram came.
I tried to verbalise the kiss last time on a date but it didn’t work.
I’m a believer in understating stuff and, scanning her as to whether she closes the proximity on you or not.
As Nick Krauser wrote in Daygame Infinite. It’s like a 25% chance or something that your going to sleep with her on the first date.
So in conclusion I have failed.
I will try now to push for a 2nd date.
Date night
Tomorrow I have a Date 1 lined up with an American HB8.
Street stop: Hand was floppy, proximity was allowed and, eyes were on.
She also invested.
Over the texting, she invested alot and, asked me out for a date. Don’t know if the polarity is fucked or not. Will find out on the date as I’m gonna run seduction only.
Why you ask seduction only….!!!
Why not deep connection and, comfort like what’s written in The Mystery Method.
Mystery’s 7 hour rule on comfort covers about 2 dates, maybe 3.
Like cricket, your bowling and, batting according to the weather conditions. In particular the pitch.
Let me give the analogy first and, then the Daygame theory.
In cricket if the pitch is wet then the ball will bounce of the surface in all soughts of wild directions. Hence making it hard for the batsman to score runs and, stay in.
This makes it easier for the bowler to get the batsman out and, stop runs from being scored.
Of course if the opposite weather conditions are true then the dry pitch suits the batsman and, not the bowler.
In Daygame there’s this concept of R/K theory. K meaning the girl doesn’t root outside a monogamous relationship.
R meaning she does.
I think this girl is a yes girl. I think she’s R.
Like Tom Torero says in his book Street Hustle “You got to burn your boats mission”.
He means fearless, relentless escalation. As the PUA Sixty Years of Challenge wrote.
I’ll let you know how I go. That is whether I crash and, burn or, I hit a home run?!
Girl no. 7 Date
Was the day after the previous girl. Was still the long weekend and, had decided to share a hotel room with my wing the night before.
Had been sarging all day, was exhausted and, had hit my 16th set when I did a front stop on a HB7 couger.
She was on from the start. Nice hand hold, nice eye fucking and, close proximity.
Ran a solid 5 minute set, then she closed me. That was a suprise.
I read that as a BIG IOI.
Looked like a SDL or SDDL.
Setup a double date with my wing and, his set as he had pulled that day too.
His girl flaked and, it ended up just being me, him and, my date.
I think 2 guys rocking up on the date that night triggered some ASD. She was off from the start.
We all shared a bottle of red wine but her proximity was off and, no hand hold. Got stuck in general chit chat about careers and, shit.
Lesson learnt, don’t bring your wing onto a date.
She was Slovakian but a local girl. Similar to her.
Women no. 3 date
She was actually my first date. Had it the other way around from my previous posts.
HB7.5 chinese cougar. Early 40’s I’d say. Did a situational stop as she was waiting for the green walk man to change at the lights.
Just got to her in time before the change and, she kept hanging around to my shpill.
Did proximity and, handshake and, direct eye contact straight away.
Was the first time I had tried it. Was on right from the start. Ran a solid set but no grounding.
The date was at her place. She cooked for me. The proximity was off and, got stuck in rapport.
I suck and, nothing happened.
Still trying to bang her!
Similar to her.
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