The Big Country

Watched this movie the other night. Was made back in 1958. Was an epic movie. All the attraction switches and, social sexual hierarchy stuff was in it.

Reminded me of the 5 attraction switches in the Mystery Method.

1. Leader of Men

2. Protector of loved ones

3. Ability to emote freely

4. Risk taking

5. Pre-selection

These are the 5 main attraction switches in women when it comes to being attracted to a guy.

That movie sumed it up in a nutshell. Great movie. Made well before PC was invented.

Made me think that the ‘London Front Stop’ and, the ‘London Daygame Model’ has at least 3 attraction switches triggered in the women. Maybe you can guess which ones they are?

Thank god for Yad, Krauser, Torero and, Jabba. My favourite Daygamers.

The Instant Date that almost resulted in a Kiss Close.

Idate Russian

Just Instant dated a young Russian broad. Early 20’s ish. Absolute stunner.

She was dressed like Audrey Hepburn, so that was my tease.

Pulled her for a tea / hot choco venue. She said she had a boyfriend as I was leading.

I said “I don’t wanna be your boyfriend, but thanks for asking”.

Cracker of a date. I noticed the hair twirl and, eye mesmer. She closed the proximity on the walk.

Allowed some very light kino.

I just did deep connection rapport stuff.

No verbal escalation as she was so stunning I was scared shitless of how hot she was.

She looked dissapointed when I had to go at the end of it.

Number closed her for whatsapp.

How I feel after the Instant Dateโ˜บ

Buy me a coffee

Helps me bring you real life infield results.

Signs shes an SNL / SDL

Had been sarging all day on Saturday and, it was the last set of the day.

Weather is a little bit wintery at the moment. This asian girl walks past with the most revealing gym knicker tights, upto her arse.

Revealing her entire fit legs upto her butt. Nice firm arse as well. Not to big, not to small, nice and, bunn like, like a burger bunn.

Worked up the courage to do a cold approach, london front stop on her.

She hooked immediately off the stop. How do I know?

She eye sparkled, smiled, was giggly and, the most important crucial tell tale sign!!….was she just stood there. She seemed like she had no place to be at in an immediate hurry. She just hung around and, stood there as I opened her.

She invested in the set like she had no where to go. She talked like she was really easy going and, open. Like she had the time and, day to have a yarn with you in the middle of a busy city centre street. That was out of place for the context we were in.

She reminded me of someone who is from the country. People from the country usually have the same characteristics.

That is they;

1. Chat with you about anything.

2. They are more open to having a yarn about nothing.

3. They smile alot and, are generally pretty friendly compared to city folk.

4. They usually will make time for you and, generally aren’t in a rush like city slickers are.

She had all these signs and, asked me a question on the open. So I knew I’d hooked early.

I did some comfort talk in the set then closed her for an Idate. She complied very easily.

Took her for hot chocolate late at around 5pm.

Bounced her for a walk in the park.

Here is the BIG thing; she was rubbing up against me as we walked side by side. Green light for she was closing the proximity on me.

I just held her hand, like she was my girlfriend at this point. She reciprocated easily.

Walk her through the park and, noticed she kept looking at my eyes.

Stopped, turned her to face me, held both her hands, looked into her eyes, said nothing. Waited for her to look down at my lips. It took her 10 seconds, then I went in for the kiss.

We sucked face on and, off through out the walk about 3 to 4 times.

It was on the 4th make out that my hands started to wonder down to her lovely arse. That’s when the LMR came up.

She said in a very lovely way, “I’m not sure if I can do this, I apologize”.

I used an anti LMR line from Tom Torero. “No no it’s me, I’m moving way to fast….this is way to fast….I don’t normally do this….move this fast.”

I rolled off, walked her to the city centre, number closed her and, got a nice kiss tongue and, all good bye. ๐Ÿ™‚

Was it an SNL, SDL?

Leave a comment and, let me know.

Her shorts were literally that short. She had short hair.

No kiss

Was sarging on the Saturday.

Got a solid number feeler reply and, an Instant date. Iranian girl, looked 19 – 21, was actually 36. Blew my mind.

She had all the ovulating signs on the pre-approach checklist.

Hooked and, had a 10 minute interaction in the street.

Pulled her for a 20 minute cohhee. Ran some verbal escalation on her. Ran some kino on her.

Walked her to the park. Ran some more verbal escalation.

Then walked her to a English style pub. I realize women try to put me in the boyfriend box when I run deep connection material. So on this date I tried to keep it in the man-women frame by verbally escalating.

Lead her to the second alcohol venue. This one was darker etc.

She bought the second round. The house wine was shite by the way. Ran some compliance and, tried for the floppy test but the seating was fucked.

I whispered into her ear that I wanted to kiss her, but no success. Tried twice over the space of 15 minutes.

Walked her back to the station after that and, bailed on her half way. Said I have to meet someone but another time etc (number close).

She tried to snatch the frame back by that stage by saying that she was looking for a relationship.

I said I’m only looking for something casual.

We did the pleasantries, no number, and parted ways.

Lessons learnt;

1. Realized that women will close the proximity on you as she starts to feel more comfortable with you. Happened on the second alcohol venue.

2. It’s a verbal silent wrestling match on the verbals. Frame battle.

3. The furtherest I’ve been on running the train for an SDL.

4. Had no F location between the coffee date and, walk in the park.

Overall, I’m hooking 1 / 3 sets.

I’m Instant dating or number closing 1 / 6 sets.

And, I’m doing Attraction on street and, Seduction on date.

Overall BIG improvement on my skills set from 6 months ago.

You learn from the pain that comes from failure and, it makes you sharper in your skills set.

Just something to look at and, Persian. The ayatollahs would be pissed!

Girl no.9 Date

Picked her up at a Melbourne Central mall. She was a HB7 Chinese girl around her mid 20’s.

Ran the usual set. Short floppy hand hold, closed her out for Instant cohee date.

Ran deep rapport on date. She wouldn’t open up. She reminded me of a chinese communist, very serious in her demeanor but, she was good looking and, I fancied her.

Bounced her to a park for some comfort then, bounced her past a pub bar. I said “that looks interesting, let’s take a look”.

She hesitated at first but then complied. I bought the first round of drinks. Proximity for the seating was off. I kino’d a little, she was on and, off with indicators of interest.

Didn’t know what to do after that as I was new. From that date, I had learned how to lead and, bounce from Venue 1 to Venue 2 and, a park in between. All on an Instant date from a street stop.

I was kino’ing too. My ‘Jedi’ skills where getting better. I was learning to feel the ‘Force’ more.

I was starting to internalise my ‘London Daygame ModeI’ skill set.

But I am not a ‘Jedi’ yet!

Got a good response on the feeler text, but then she flaked later when I fourth walled my intent over the text.

Maybe she had a fella, maybe she was K-k select (K, leaning more towards k’ ish rather then more r’ ish).

Never heard from her again.

Feeling high value!

Girl no.8 Date

Read some stuff about kino ing, so I knew where I was going wrong.

Picked up this early 20’s Asian HB8 from the mall area above Southern cross station. She was half Thai, half Chinese.

She eye spazzed quickly (anime eyez), long floppy hand hold, giggled laughed and, kood.

5+ minute solid set, lead her for an Instant date to cohhee shop. Practised kino ing hands etc.

About half an hour date, said she was meeting girlfriends for dinner. Could have kissed closed her at the end of the date because I had hold of her hands and, she had gooee eyes. Chickened out.

Sent feeler text the next day, she responded a couple of times then went cold. She added me on her Instagram. I saw she was boyfriend up.

What a let down.

Anime eyes are a sign of peek ovulation. Big and, black with white glints in them.

Girl no.6 date

Was the holiday long weekend just before the winter was about to hit. It was still hot and, I was on my 15th set asking myself questions like a man lost in the desert with no water.

The questions I was asking myself was how hard is daygame, when was my next on girl, why am I doing daygame, too many family’s today, no ambling girls on their own or, in a 2 set.

What to do I ask myself. I was tired, my feet where killing me from sarging all day.

Then out of nowwheresville I see this 20ish asian HB8 standing on the street corner waiting to cross at the lights, amongst a throng of people that day.

The spotlight effect had kicked in, so did my AA.

She was dressed like Alice in wonderland.

Nice I said to myself. I got to the lights, stood behind and, just to the side of her about 6 feet away.

The green man turned and, so everyone started crossing. I waited until she fully crossed the road before I made my move.

As I was making my move I got caught up in a wave of people coming my way.

I finally got through them and, caught up to her. I did a side stop. I was knackered by that stage. I could barely get my words out.

She was socialbly nice. Proximity was of but hand shake was on. Ran a 5-7 minute solid set, then closed her for an Instant coffee date.

What stood out in the street stop was that she just kept standing there even thou the proximity was of.

Lesson learnt….that’s a huge IOI.

The date went even better. She was so polite and, so nice. It through me sideways how nice she really was. She was also hot too. ๐Ÿ™‚

Ran deep rapport on her. She loved it. Closed out the date after 1 hour. I was exhausted by that stage.

Looking back on it, I was probarly exhausted because I was drinkies the night before. Don’t do that. K.

Second date, lead her to a tea room and, we drank tea and, ate scons. She loved it.

I was still a beginner back then and, still didn’t know much about dating and, escalating.

Walked her to a park then back to the city area. Proximity was of. Tried to lean in for a goodbye kiss, was of.

What a chode I was.

She still keeps in touch 6 months later, but haven’t banged her yet.

Like that but asian and, no hat.

Girl no. 5 date

Was in a shopping centre (mall in american) in the city. Was about the 11th set, did a side stop.

She was a Taiwanese HB7 but a body like a model. Around 21 years old.

Ran a solid 5 minute set, pulled her for an Instant coffee date.

1 hour coffee date, then lead her for a walk to the local botanic gardens type park in the city area.

After that didn’t know what I was doing so was winging it.

Proximity was of in the park, verbalised the alcohol venue, again don’t do that.

She responded to the feeler text. I had some pinging going backwards and, forwards but later she dropped off the radar.

I’d say I fucked up the texting. Got stuck in banter.

Lesson learnt, don’t do banter over the text.

I also didn’t know how to run physical compliance tests back then. So I picked up Nick Krauser’s stuff and, started reading.

“Daygame Mastery”. Book title.

I vowed next time I would lead girl to bar and, run physical compliance tests.

Dressed like her but face not as good and, she wore white runners.