There are some basic truths, I’ve learnt from chatting up women on the street.
The power of subcommunication. Being in the moment with your thoughts and, expressing them through the implied.
That authenticity or spontaneity is your VIBE.
Underneath that is your STATE.
Clearing your mind of the past and future. Expressing whatever comes into it in that moment is key.
The moment comes and the moment goes. A new moment comes and it goes again. You have to let go of that fleeting moment and embrace the new one just as quickly as the old one came and went. This is called being in the now. Being in the moment.
I noticed that women are designed to read facial expressions far better than men.
I think women are attracted to men who have the look of ‘now’.
This is the basis of attraction.
Think a wicked thought about her as you look into her eyes. See that thought crystalize in her eyes. Thats without saying anything.
If you have to say something sexual, infer it. Inference is more powerful then stating it.
Let her draw her own conclusions. Let her imagination run wild. It will do all the work for you. She will then connect those fantasies to you.
Had a stunning girl on an idate and, k closed her.
I just wanted to write about the things I learnt from the idate.
What I learnt from nature is the concept of pair bonding. E.g when you see a bird in your backyard for the first time they tend to run away. As time goes on and, you continue to see the same bird I noticed that they start to come closer.
They even start to hang out with you when your around.
It’s because they are pair bonding with you and thus trust you.
You see this with pigs and sheep on farms. If they are together long enough they become a herd. Best mates
IthinkMen and Women are the same. So what I do is walk the girl from the pickup location to the coffee shop. From the coffee shop to the park. From the park to the alcohol venue etc.
As you do this I noticed the girl starts to accept you more. She is pair bonding with you from walking with you. You lead and she follows. Just like walking a dog. To clarify girls are not dogs by the way. You get my point.
Then you can start the hands, isolation, k close process.
Just be aware not to go past the point of no return. Refer to The Mystery Method book on this point.
Had been sarging all day on Saturday and, it was the last set of the day.
Weather is a little bit wintery at the moment. This asian girl walks past with the most revealing gym knicker tights, upto her arse.
Revealing her entire fit legs upto her butt. Nice firm arse as well. Not to big, not to small, nice and, bunn like, like a burger bunn.
Worked up the courage to do a cold approach, london front stop on her.
She hooked immediately off the stop. How do I know?
She eye sparkled, smiled, was giggly and, the most important crucial tell tale sign!!….was she just stood there. She seemed like she had no place to be at in an immediate hurry. She just hung around and, stood there as I opened her.
She invested in the set like she had no where to go. She talked like she was really easy going and, open. Like she had the time and, day to have a yarn with you in the middle of a busy city centre street. That was out of place for the context we were in.
She reminded me of someone who is from the country. People from the country usually have the same characteristics.
That is they;
1. Chat with you about anything.
2. They are more open to having a yarn about nothing.
3. They smile alot and, are generally pretty friendly compared to city folk.
4. They usually will make time for you and, generally aren’t in a rush like city slickers are.
She had all these signs and, asked me a question on the open. So I knew I’d hooked early.
I did some comfort talk in the set then closed her for an Idate. She complied very easily.
Took her for hot chocolate late at around 5pm.
Bounced her for a walk in the park.
Here is the BIG thing; she was rubbing up against me as we walked side by side. Green light for she was closing the proximity on me.
I just held her hand, like she was my girlfriend at this point. She reciprocated easily.
Walk her through the park and, noticed she kept looking at my eyes.
Stopped, turned her to face me, held both her hands, looked into her eyes, said nothing. Waited for her to look down at my lips. It took her 10 seconds, then I went in for the kiss.
We sucked face on and, off through out the walk about 3 to 4 times.
It was on the 4th make out that my hands started to wonder down to her lovely arse. That’s when the LMR came up.
She said in a very lovely way, “I’m not sure if I can do this, I apologize”.
I used an anti LMR line from Tom Torero. “No no it’s me, I’m moving way to fast….this is way to fast….I don’t normally do this….move this fast.”
I rolled off, walked her to the city centre, number closed her and, got a nice kiss tongue and, all good bye. 🙂
Was it an SNL, SDL?
Leave a comment and, let me know.
Her shorts were literally that short. She had short hair.
Got a solid number feeler reply and, an Instant date. Iranian girl, looked 19 – 21, was actually 36. Blew my mind.
She had all the ovulating signs on the pre-approach checklist.
Hooked and, had a 10 minute interaction in the street.
Pulled her for a 20 minute cohhee. Ran some verbal escalation on her. Ran some kino on her.
Walked her to the park. Ran some more verbal escalation.
Then walked her to a English style pub. I realize women try to put me in the boyfriend box when I run deep connection material. So on this date I tried to keep it in the man-women frame by verbally escalating.
Lead her to the second alcohol venue. This one was darker etc.
She bought the second round. The house wine was shite by the way. Ran some compliance and, tried for the floppy test but the seating was fucked.
I whispered into her ear that I wanted to kiss her, but no success. Tried twice over the space of 15 minutes.
Walked her back to the station after that and, bailed on her half way. Said I have to meet someone but another time etc (number close).
She tried to snatch the frame back by that stage by saying that she was looking for a relationship.
I said I’m only looking for something casual.
We did the pleasantries, no number, and parted ways.
1. Realized that women will close the proximity on you as she starts to feel more comfortable with you. Happened on the second alcohol venue.
2. It’s a verbal silent wrestling match on the verbals. Frame battle.
3. The furtherest I’ve been on running the train for an SDL.
4. Had no F location between the coffee date and, walk in the park.
Overall, I’m hooking 1 / 3 sets.
I’m Instant dating or number closing 1 / 6 sets.
And, I’m doing Attraction on street and, Seduction on date.
Overall BIG improvement on my skills set from 6 months ago.
You learn from the pain that comes from failure and, it makes you sharper in your skills set.
Just something to look at and, Persian. The ayatollahs would be pissed!