No girls

I just wanted to write a post about No girls.

Daygame is hard. It’s very hard. There’s a section at the end of ‘Balls Deep’ author Nick Krauser about most girls being a No.

It’s an interesting view on biology and, why most girls you’ll meet will be a No.

I won’t go into the biological take on why most girls are no. It’s highly recommended that you read Nick Krauser’s ‘Balls Deep’ memoir. In particular the part at the end of the book about why most girls are no.

What I will talk about in this blog post is that there is a sliding scale of No to Yes. A girl could fit anywhere on that scale.

Let’s say a 1 is an extreme Yes girl and a 10 is an extreme No girl. Let’s say a 5 is in the middle.

According to Krauser’s biological take on the subject matter, most girls will be somewhat in the middle. Some might be a 6 or a 7 towards the No side.

Some might be a 3 or 4 on the Yes side. Meaning more likely to say Yes with enough comfort time.

5 is in the middle leaning toward a No.

So according to Krauser, most girls would be around the 4 to 8 levels of No. Also known as Maybe girls.

His saying the reason for this is that biologically women will produce a limited number of eggs throughout their life time.

A man will produce an unlimited number of sperm over his life spand.

Nature has programmed women to protect their limited supply of eggs, while programming the guy to propagate and, scatter his sperm with many women as possible over his life spand.

This allows the offspring to be as robust as can be so the next generation is strong enough to survive and, replicate the species.

So when a girl ends up being a No. You gotta work out on what scale is she a no.

You then play the percentages accordingly with comfort time based on each individual girl.

That’s why Same day lays are rare because only a small no. of girls are in the extreme Yes side of the scale.

That’s why the Game is played in the Maybe category.

Some girls are Maybe. Most girls are No.

That’s why you got to do the numbers. 30 – 50 sets a week.

Because most girls are No.

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Just something to look at!

The Ups and, downs of Game

This post is going to be about the grind of game.

These are biological truths about game that I have experienced infield and, from reading literature about it. Mainly literature from Krauser and, Torero.

Fact No. 1

When you cold / warm approach you will find that most women are not attracted to most guys. I found the ratio to be 3 out of 4.

Fact No. 2

For the girls that are attracted to me. That is 1 out of 4, most are not available. Some are on the fence with their current boyfriend partner etc. Only a small number of those attracted girls are available.

Fact 3

Those attracted girls who are available need some comfort time. Every girl has a different level of time needed in comfort. You have to assess how much time you need to spend with the girl on an individual basis.

Fact 4

Off the 3 out of 4 that are not attracted. There is a greater number of those girls who are available then the ones who are attracted and, available.

Fact 5

Out of every 4 girls that are attracted, 1 is aroused. Half of these 1’s who are aroused are not available. The other half are available. SDL’s, SNL’s and, SDDL’s are possible if you can pick the girl that is aroused and, available.

The ratios:

15 sets. 3 attracted girls. 1 aroused girl.

2 not available or maybe 1 is not available and, 1 is.

Of the aroused girls, 1 aroused girl is or is not available.

Comment below if your ratios differ or are about the same.

The Big Country

Watched this movie the other night. Was made back in 1958. Was an epic movie. All the attraction switches and, social sexual hierarchy stuff was in it.

Reminded me of the 5 attraction switches in the Mystery Method.

1. Leader of Men

2. Protector of loved ones

3. Ability to emote freely

4. Risk taking

5. Pre-selection

These are the 5 main attraction switches in women when it comes to being attracted to a guy.

That movie sumed it up in a nutshell. Great movie. Made well before PC was invented.

Made me think that the ‘London Front Stop’ and, the ‘London Daygame Model’ has at least 3 attraction switches triggered in the women. Maybe you can guess which ones they are?

Thank god for Yad, Krauser, Torero and, Jabba. My favourite Daygamers.

The Instant Date that almost resulted in a Kiss Close.

How to Tease and, challenge

1. Say what you see and ‘twist’ it.

2. Say what your thinking in the moment.

3. Say what your feeling in the moment.

4. Recognise that the moment comes….and it goes. Grab onto the new moment and, express it out loud.

Women are attracted to men who freely emote verbally.

The morning after the lay. Couple weeks ago.

The Bird Song

Key moments in a pickup attempt.

1. Chance meeting. It’s what a girl wants. “We just met by chance. What are the chances” = Front stop.

2. Using your eyes to fuck the girl in the street = Eye mesmer.

3. Romance. “I want to be romanced” = Sexually desire me in the most covert way possible so no one knows but you and, me.

4. I want a man = Lead, bounce, lead, lead, bounce.

5. I think his right for me = Attraction is in the push. 2 pushes and, 1 pull over the text messaging.

6. Comfort building = Physically escalate. 2 steps forward, 1 step back.

7. “We are not gonna have sex” = Tell me verbally that you don’t want me sexually. I’ll then probably jump your bones.

8. “It just happened” = Not my fault we had sex. It was natural. It was by chance. It just happened!

The dance between man and, women.

Fools mate

These are my thoughts on Mode One and, Pickup.

I think most women’s threshold for “comfort” sit somewhere in the middle.

To paraphrase Steve Jabba “Every womens comfort level is different. Some need more comfort, some need less. Some don’t need any comfort at all and, will just fuck”.

The Mystery Method writes “To begin with Seduction first is Fools mate”.

I think only a tiny number of girls are “Yes girls” which Mode One would work on. Even then they are gonna want some comfort afterwards and, would probarly ghost you once you go down a gear to comfort building.

All the girls I fucked on the first or second date ended up ghosting me afterwards.

I think it’s because of “Buyers Remorse”.

The pro’s and, con’s of both sides of the coin?

Overt direct Mode one communication;

Pros = Filters out Time Wasters. Filters for Yes girls.

Cons = Buyers Remorse. She wriggles of the hook before you’ve fucked her, a “Maybe girl” that is.

Covert Indirect Direct communication;

Pros = Comfort building, ongoing sex, socially acceptable.

Cons = Waste time on dates to nowhere with Timewaster types.

Ross Jeffries said “You burst the sexual tension bubble when you go overt”.

He said “women are attracted to sexual tension”. “Women are attracted to the anticipation of getting laid”.

My thoughts are this;

We are talking about biology and, millions of years of human evolution.

As The Mystery Method book states;

Back when we were cave men. The women wants to know that if she gets knocked up by you. That cave man you with a big stick will hang around to protect her and, the bun in her oven from the saba tooth tiger.

She doesn’t know it to be sure, she just feels it. Buyers remorse. It’s hard wired into her hind brain. Millions of years of evolution.

That’s why Tom Torero said “The crem dela crem of pickup is somewhere between indirect and, direct language”.

Indirect, Direct. Or it should be refered to as Direct, Indirect.

That is your Direct with your eyes, subcommunication and, touch. Your Indirect with your verbals.

Your On with your subcommunication and, physical. Your Off with your words.

If you have to be On verbally then you can use innuendo or NLP.

My conclusion is that a Venesian artist should always practice “Solid game”.

Solid game is hard. Always consistently work on your value and, open. Do the numbers. It will make you better at your set and, reading the women. Numbers overcomes all.

On value, hit the gym loose the weight. Keep it off. Stop drinking.

Could be your next date?!

Feeler Text

Hi evrybody

Today, we are going to get down to brass tax.

This post is going to be about Investment.

You do your Daygame shenanigans and, manage to get some numbers. You think hey my sets were pretty fucking good.

You send your feeler texts out to all those lovely ladies.

But then something happens…..!

Those lovely girls don’t turn out to be so lovely after all?!

The girl you thought was solid turns out to be a flake.

The girl you thought wasn’t so crash hot ends up responding.

The girl you never thought would respond, ends up responding.

The rest just flake.

The end result from your hard day’s work sarging, turns out not to be such a win after all.

Your on a high from the days sarge but then you wake up the next morning on the come down from the previous days State.

Worse, you realise your not that shit hot after all. The flakes start to set in.

You now feel like you have been hit with the right hand and, hook. BAM BAM!

But then some messages start to trickle in and, you feel a little bit better about yourself.

You think, ‘yeah I’m still shit hot!’.

“What the fuck just happened” you say to yourself?!

Let’s go through the theory shall we.

Mind wank session now in.

The most important sign a girl can give you is Investment off the feeler text or, lack of. That will tell you all you need to know about a girls interest in you.

I hypothesize that there are 3 differen’t types of ‘Investment’ from a girl.

1. She does not respond to your feeler text = she has no interest in you full stop.

2. She responds to your feeler text. She does not match the amount of investment from you. Meaning she writes less words then you.

Means she’s a Timewaster and, either has a fella on the side or is just trying to tool you for something. Usually it’s free attention.

3. She responds to your feeler text with equal or more words in the text message.

Means she is investing in you. Means she likes you and, is seriously considering you for romantic love making.

What can I say, the Sexual Market Place doesn’t lie.

Your Sexual Market Value is what it is.

Your trying to Game Mother nature at it’s best or worst.

One should not be shocked with what comes back!

But there are 2 things you can do!

Keep opening, keep going, the numbers will work in your favour at some point. It’s just probability at the end of the day.

The second thing you can do is work on your value. Loosing the weight is the biggest thing. Keep it off. Stop boozing, smoking and, eat right. Do cardio and, basic pushups, situps.

And, lastly be Consistent with it all. Get into a routine.

Been sarging all day.

Charm + Charisma and Vibe

What I noticed about alot of my Daygame sets is this;

Women who responded to my teasing and, challenging and, good vibe, where more genuine and honest with me on dates and, over texts.

I think they liked me for me. Not for anything else. That’s why they came out on a date with me.

The sets were I up’d the sexual tension e.g more SOI’s, more Kino, did less charm and, charisma, I got more timewasters. I got financial timewaster types. I sometimes got girls who wanted a relationship. Sometimes I got girls who just wanted free attention.

I think the difference in outcome is obvious.

When I up’d the charm and, vibe and, did less sexual tension, I noticed the women that came out on those dates where more real and, authentic. I got less timewaster types.

3 SOI’s is about right. 4 to 5 is too much sexual intent.

Light kino’ing is about right. Maybe 2 – 3 light touches. Not 5 – 6.

Kino’ing that works on the street:

Hand shake

Touch fingers light

Touch hair light only if she’s shown signs of attraction through her body language.

Hand lightly on upper arm for 1.5 secs. 2 -3 seconds if she has shown signs of attraction.

Touch jacket lightly if she has shown signs of attraction.

Statements of Interest / Intent may include:

“You look very, very nice”

“You have nice eyes….nice hair”

On close “I like your….(figure / hips / legs / look etc)”

Elvis the pelvis had heaps of it. Charm and charisma!

Signs shes an SNL / SDL

Had been sarging all day on Saturday and, it was the last set of the day.

Weather is a little bit wintery at the moment. This asian girl walks past with the most revealing gym knicker tights, upto her arse.

Revealing her entire fit legs upto her butt. Nice firm arse as well. Not to big, not to small, nice and, bunn like, like a burger bunn.

Worked up the courage to do a cold approach, london front stop on her.

She hooked immediately off the stop. How do I know?

She eye sparkled, smiled, was giggly and, the most important crucial tell tale sign!!….was she just stood there. She seemed like she had no place to be at in an immediate hurry. She just hung around and, stood there as I opened her.

She invested in the set like she had no where to go. She talked like she was really easy going and, open. Like she had the time and, day to have a yarn with you in the middle of a busy city centre street. That was out of place for the context we were in.

She reminded me of someone who is from the country. People from the country usually have the same characteristics.

That is they;

1. Chat with you about anything.

2. They are more open to having a yarn about nothing.

3. They smile alot and, are generally pretty friendly compared to city folk.

4. They usually will make time for you and, generally aren’t in a rush like city slickers are.

She had all these signs and, asked me a question on the open. So I knew I’d hooked early.

I did some comfort talk in the set then closed her for an Idate. She complied very easily.

Took her for hot chocolate late at around 5pm.

Bounced her for a walk in the park.

Here is the BIG thing; she was rubbing up against me as we walked side by side. Green light for she was closing the proximity on me.

I just held her hand, like she was my girlfriend at this point. She reciprocated easily.

Walk her through the park and, noticed she kept looking at my eyes.

Stopped, turned her to face me, held both her hands, looked into her eyes, said nothing. Waited for her to look down at my lips. It took her 10 seconds, then I went in for the kiss.

We sucked face on and, off through out the walk about 3 to 4 times.

It was on the 4th make out that my hands started to wonder down to her lovely arse. That’s when the LMR came up.

She said in a very lovely way, “I’m not sure if I can do this, I apologize”.

I used an anti LMR line from Tom Torero. “No no it’s me, I’m moving way to fast….this is way to fast….I don’t normally do this….move this fast.”

I rolled off, walked her to the city centre, number closed her and, got a nice kiss tongue and, all good bye. 🙂

Was it an SNL, SDL?

Leave a comment and, let me know.

Her shorts were literally that short. She had short hair.