Secret Tells

I’ve been doing Pickup Artistry through Daygame for about 3 years now. I have learnt and internalised the London Daygame Model.

Here’s what I have learnt from chatting up women during the day.

Girls communicate in a secret language cloaked in logic and, rationale but it’s far from it.

Their language is abit like Morse code. To use the e.g each series of taps represents a coded message. A message that I as a guy have to figure out. Maybe like a riddle.

Communicating with women is like learning a new language.

It’s taken me 3 years to learn it.

The trick to learning this new secretive language is to learn and do the London Daygame Model over and over again. At least 1000 sets it takes before shit starts dawning on you.

Here are some e.g’s of some secret tells ;

● Girls eyes sparkle and crackle in set

● She allows the space to be encroached

● She allows incidental light touching

● She asks you a question

● She giggles and, laughs during the set

● She invests during the set and over texts

Steve Jabba who is a legend in the Pick Up Artist world calls this “The Secret Society”.

Over the texting it’s similar. That is the secret language they speak.

For e.g a girl says “I’m looking for a boyfriend” decoded means ‘I’m looking for trust and connection’.

I could go on at length with more e.g’s.

The answer to all your problems with women is to practice and nail the ‘London Front Stop’.

The Tom Torero version works the best. You wheel around the girl slowly from a distance. Abit like a boomarang slowly spinning into the front position of the girl.

Anyways give it a go. Good luck 😊

Me decoding their language!

Subcommunication

There are some basic truths, I’ve learnt from chatting up women on the street.

The power of subcommunication. Being in the moment with your thoughts and, expressing them through the implied.

That authenticity or spontaneity is your VIBE.

Underneath that is your STATE.

Clearing your mind of the past and future. Expressing whatever comes into it in that moment is key.

The moment comes and the moment goes. A new moment comes and it goes again. You have to let go of that fleeting moment and embrace the new one just as quickly as the old one came and went. This is called being in the now. Being in the moment.

I noticed that women are designed to read facial expressions far better than men.

I think women are attracted to men who have the look of ‘now’.

This is the basis of attraction.

Think a wicked thought about her as you look into her eyes. See that thought crystalize in her eyes. Thats without saying anything.

If you have to say something sexual, infer it. Inference is more powerful then stating it.

Let her draw her own conclusions. Let her imagination run wild. It will do all the work for you. She will then connect those fantasies to you.

Remember, inference is King.

The I date that ended in a K close.

Proximity

I had my best day out doing Daygame yesterday.

Had a stunning girl on an idate and, k closed her.

I just wanted to write about the things I learnt from the idate.

What I learnt from nature is the concept of pair bonding. E.g when you see a bird in your backyard for the first time they tend to run away. As time goes on and, you continue to see the same bird I noticed that they start to come closer.

They even start to hang out with you when your around.

It’s because they are pair bonding with you and thus trust you.

You see this with pigs and sheep on farms. If they are together long enough they become a herd. Best mates

I think Men and Women are the same. So what I do is walk the girl from the pickup location to the coffee shop. From the coffee shop to the park. From the park to the alcohol venue etc.

As you do this I noticed the girl starts to accept you more. She is pair bonding with you from walking with you. You lead and she follows. Just like walking a dog. To clarify girls are not dogs by the way. You get my point.

Then you can start the hands, isolation, k close process.

Just be aware not to go past the point of no return. Refer to The Mystery Method book on this point.

The texting that followed.

Sexual Tension

This is my first post in a while so apologies. Just been working and, doing lot’s of Front Stops 😁

Had some dates with some stunners. I’ve also been trying to maintain or up my value (artificially inflate it thru game).

I was also trying out some Mode 1 stuff over the phone for the seduction stage. Trying to bypass the dating part.

Here’s what I have learnt so far.

A.) Ross Jefferies is right about bursting the sexual tension bubble when you overtly talk about sex.

B.) Love Drop aka Chris Odom is correct about the key being ‘spontaneity’ is what women want when it comes to the F close.

C.) Love Drop is correct about women wanting ‘plausible deniability’ when it comes to the F close.

D.) Nick Krauser is correct about women having a ‘Timeline’. LMR occurs when you are pushing for the F close ahead of her timeline. Or as Mystery says “the game is played in comfort”.

This is where I think Mode One can work. Hear me out for a moment. I’m now about to make the arguement supporting the ‘Radical Honesty’ concept with girls.

I think about 15% of women are R select. With those type of girls I found overt sexualised speech can be used as Attraction material. It does work to attract the girl but you still have to do comfort when you meet her. You still have to have some value which shows up or doesn’t on the F date.

R select women still have their timeline and, it’s different for all women.

R select women know your casual sex material and, not a prospect for a relationship before the lay has occured. They might wiggle of the hook if a relationship type guy comes along. Hence missing out on the lay.

The R select girl still has to be somewhat available. (Krauser “most girls are not available”.)

How to pick the R select type on the street?

Long floppy hand hold. Allows the proximity to be encroached. Direct eyes plus smile and maybe giggle. Laughs at everything you say.

Note: I have not tried Mode one on the street. I don’t recommend it. I have tried it over the phone on R select girls who have invested on the text first.

Some Peacocking during a Daygame set!

The Big Country

Watched this movie the other night. Was made back in 1958. Was an epic movie. All the attraction switches and, social sexual hierarchy stuff was in it.

Reminded me of the 5 attraction switches in the Mystery Method.

1. Leader of Men

2. Protector of loved ones

3. Ability to emote freely

4. Risk taking

5. Pre-selection

These are the 5 main attraction switches in women when it comes to being attracted to a guy.

That movie sumed it up in a nutshell. Great movie. Made well before PC was invented.

Made me think that the ‘London Front Stop’ and, the ‘London Daygame Model’ has at least 3 attraction switches triggered in the women. Maybe you can guess which ones they are?

Thank god for Yad, Krauser, Torero and, Jabba. My favourite Daygamers.

The Instant Date that almost resulted in a Kiss Close.

How to Tease and, challenge

1. Say what you see and ‘twist’ it.

2. Say what your thinking in the moment.

3. Say what your feeling in the moment.

4. Recognise that the moment comes….and it goes. Grab onto the new moment and, express it out loud.

Women are attracted to men who freely emote verbally.

The morning after the lay. Couple weeks ago.

Idate Russian

Just Instant dated a young Russian broad. Early 20’s ish. Absolute stunner.

She was dressed like Audrey Hepburn, so that was my tease.

Pulled her for a tea / hot choco venue. She said she had a boyfriend as I was leading.

I said “I don’t wanna be your boyfriend, but thanks for asking”.

Cracker of a date. I noticed the hair twirl and, eye mesmer. She closed the proximity on the walk.

Allowed some very light kino.

I just did deep connection rapport stuff.

No verbal escalation as she was so stunning I was scared shitless of how hot she was.

She looked dissapointed when I had to go at the end of it.

Number closed her for whatsapp.

How I feel after the Instant Date☺

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