Had a discussion with my wing today as we did some sets. Forgot my train of thought. Then messaged him later about it.
This post is about comfort time and the love bubble.
On the back end dating I think women are attracted to romance or aka the love bubble. Most guys cant give that. Most guys can only give cock or provider stuff.
I notice girls crave the movie moment on a date. Bounce lead bounce lead. Test proximity. Kiss.
They are all movie moments.
The other thing I noticed on the back end is being as socially normal as possible.
Women love socially normal guys. The more you do social stuff with her and the less you try sexual stuff with her it builds the anticipation of sex occuring at some point in the future.
Women love this feeling.
You dont seek an outcome and her love juices bubble while you reframe from sexual overtones. Hence the anticipation going up in her mind.
Women are natural at the feeling of sex. Its automatic. So I advocate doing less. Matter of fact do nothing. Let her heat up in her love juices. She’s automatically doing it for you.
All you have to do is walk around with her and do shit. Wait for the proxy close and hold her hand.
No proximity. No hand hold.
Means no physicality from her. Its never gonna happen. Sex that is. She doesnt see you as sexually attractive. Let her go. Next!!!
if she allows proximity then hand hold will occur automatically. Then kiss close. Your on your way 😉
The trick is to walk her around like a puppy dog.
Rack up time in comfort.
The average being 7 hours according to The Mystery Method.
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How to spot a Time waster
I’ve been on a few dates now and I think I can spot a timewaster.
Try this next time your on a date. Go quiet. Say nothing. Silence will give you the answer.
She will do one of three things;
1. She will continue to talk alot like a motor mouth and not allow you to fill the gaps. When she runs out of things to say she will then vacuum you. This is her trying to qualify you. It’s a subtle frame battle. =
Shes a timewaster.
2. She asks you a question to fill the silence. This means she is a genuine girl who is genuinely attracted to you. She will usually have a two way conversation with you. =
Maybe or Yes girl
3. She does not invest. She allows the silence to continue. Shes ok with the silence dragging on for a long time. =
This type of girl has either got a boyfriend and is not willing to upgrade OR she is not attracted to you. She just wants free attention from a push over beta.
Now with that knowledge in mind, go forth and multiply 😁
No hoper set yesterday!
I’ve been doing Pickup Artistry through Daygame for about 3 years now. I have learnt and internalised the London Daygame Model.
Here’s what I have learnt from chatting up women during the day.
Girls communicate in a secret language cloaked in logic and, rationale but it’s far from it.
Their language is abit like Morse code. To use the e.g each series of taps represents a coded message. A message that I as a guy have to figure out. Maybe like a riddle.
Communicating with women is like learning a new language.
It’s taken me 3 years to learn it.
The trick to learning this new secretive language is to learn and do the London Daygame Model over and over again. At least 1000 sets it takes before shit starts dawning on you.
Here are some e.g’s of some secret tells ;
● Girls eyes sparkle and crackle in set
● She allows the space to be encroached
● She allows incidental light touching
● She asks you a question
● She giggles and, laughs during the set
● She invests during the set and over texts
Steve Jabba who is a legend in the Pick Up Artist world calls this “The Secret Society”.
Over the texting it’s similar. That is the secret language they speak.
For e.g a girl says “I’m looking for a boyfriend” decoded means ‘I’m looking for trust and connection’.
I could go on at length with more e.g’s.
The answer to all your problems with women is to practice and nail the ‘London Front Stop’.
The Tom Torero version works the best. You wheel around the girl slowly from a distance. Abit like a boomarang slowly spinning into the front position of the girl.
Anyways give it a go. Good luck 😊
Date Request Ping Text
From Torero’s Street Hustle book.
If it helps 😊
If you are in the Melbourne area and are looking for a wing, contact me on 0435 378 942
There are some basic truths, I’ve learnt from chatting up women on the street.
The power of subcommunication. Being in the moment with your thoughts and, expressing them through the implied.
That authenticity or spontaneity is your VIBE.
Underneath that is your STATE.
Clearing your mind of the past and future. Expressing whatever comes into it in that moment is key.
The moment comes and the moment goes. A new moment comes and it goes again. You have to let go of that fleeting moment and embrace the new one just as quickly as the old one came and went. This is called being in the now. Being in the moment.
I noticed that women are designed to read facial expressions far better than men.
I think women are attracted to men who have the look of ‘now’.
This is the basis of attraction.
Think a wicked thought about her as you look into her eyes. See that thought crystalize in her eyes. Thats without saying anything.
If you have to say something sexual, infer it. Inference is more powerful then stating it.
Let her draw her own conclusions. Let her imagination run wild. It will do all the work for you. She will then connect those fantasies to you.
Remember, inference is King.
I had my best day out doing Daygame yesterday.
Had a stunning girl on an idate and, k closed her.
I just wanted to write about the things I learnt from the idate.
What I learnt from nature is the concept of pair bonding. E.g when you see a bird in your backyard for the first time they tend to run away. As time goes on and, you continue to see the same bird I noticed that they start to come closer.
They even start to hang out with you when your around.
It’s because they are pair bonding with you and thus trust you.
You see this with pigs and sheep on farms. If they are together long enough they become a herd. Best mates
I think Men and Women are the same. So what I do is walk the girl from the pickup location to the coffee shop. From the coffee shop to the park. From the park to the alcohol venue etc.
As you do this I noticed the girl starts to accept you more. She is pair bonding with you from walking with you. You lead and she follows. Just like walking a dog. To clarify girls are not dogs by the way. You get my point.
Then you can start the hands, isolation, k close process.
Just be aware not to go past the point of no return. Refer to The Mystery Method book on this point.
This is my first post in a while so apologies. Just been working and, doing lot’s of Front Stops 😁
Had some dates with some stunners. I’ve also been trying to maintain or up my value (artificially inflate it thru game).
I was also trying out some Mode 1 stuff over the phone for the seduction stage. Trying to bypass the dating part.
Here’s what I have learnt so far.
A.) Ross Jefferies is right about bursting the sexual tension bubble when you overtly talk about sex.
B.) Love Drop aka Chris Odom is correct about the key being ‘spontaneity’ is what women want when it comes to the F close.
C.) Love Drop is correct about women wanting ‘plausible deniability’ when it comes to the F close.
D.) Nick Krauser is correct about women having a ‘Timeline’. LMR occurs when you are pushing for the F close ahead of her timeline. Or as Mystery says “the game is played in comfort”.
This is where I think Mode One can work. Hear me out for a moment. I’m now about to make the arguement supporting the ‘Radical Honesty’ concept with girls.
I think about 15% of women are R select. With those type of girls I found overt sexualised speech can be used as Attraction material. It does work to attract the girl but you still have to do comfort when you meet her. You still have to have some value which shows up or doesn’t on the F date.
R select women still have their timeline and, it’s different for all women.
R select women know your casual sex material and, not a prospect for a relationship before the lay has occured. They might wiggle of the hook if a relationship type guy comes along. Hence missing out on the lay.
The R select girl still has to be somewhat available. (Krauser “most girls are not available”.)
How to pick the R select type on the street?
Long floppy hand hold. Allows the proximity to be encroached. Direct eyes plus smile and maybe giggle. Laughs at everything you say.
Note: I have not tried Mode one on the street. I don’t recommend it. I have tried it over the phone on R select girls who have invested on the text first.