Subcommunication

There are some basic truths, I’ve learnt from chatting up women on the street.

The power of subcommunication. Being in the moment with your thoughts and, expressing them through the implied.

That authenticity or spontaneity is your VIBE.

Underneath that is your STATE.

Clearing your mind of the past and future. Expressing whatever comes into it in that moment is key.

The moment comes and the moment goes. A new moment comes and it goes again. You have to let go of that fleeting moment and embrace the new one just as quickly as the old one came and went. This is called being in the now. Being in the moment.

I noticed that women are designed to read facial expressions far better than men.

I think women are attracted to men who have the look of ‘now’.

This is the basis of attraction.

Think a wicked thought about her as you look into her eyes. See that thought crystalize in her eyes. Thats without saying anything.

If you have to say something sexual, infer it. Inference is more powerful then stating it.

Let her draw her own conclusions. Let her imagination run wild. It will do all the work for you. She will then connect those fantasies to you.

Remember, inference is King.

The I date that ended in a K close.

Proximity

I had my best day out doing Daygame yesterday.

Had a stunning girl on an idate and, k closed her.

I just wanted to write about the things I learnt from the idate.

What I learnt from nature is the concept of pair bonding. E.g when you see a bird in your backyard for the first time they tend to run away. As time goes on and, you continue to see the same bird I noticed that they start to come closer.

They even start to hang out with you when your around.

It’s because they are pair bonding with you and thus trust you.

You see this with pigs and sheep on farms. If they are together long enough they become a herd. Best mates

I think Men and Women are the same. So what I do is walk the girl from the pickup location to the coffee shop. From the coffee shop to the park. From the park to the alcohol venue etc.

As you do this I noticed the girl starts to accept you more. She is pair bonding with you from walking with you. You lead and she follows. Just like walking a dog. To clarify girls are not dogs by the way. You get my point.

Then you can start the hands, isolation, k close process.

Just be aware not to go past the point of no return. Refer to The Mystery Method book on this point.

The texting that followed.

Pair Bonding

What I’ve noticed since I started ‘game’ and, what means more to the girl then sex is ‘pair bonding’ and, wanting ‘sex’ less then the girl.

Now I know some of you reading this are gonna be like ‘your talking shite’ and, that ‘you gotta strike while the iron is hot etc etc da di da…di da?!’.

The fact of the matter, through my own experience of what I have seen and done is that ‘Daygame’ gives you an introduction and, connection to the girl but ultimately it’s ‘time spent in comfort’ that has the greatest impact.

‘Pair Bonding’ and, kino’ing at the same time ‘on’ and, ‘off’ are by far the 2 most powerful things in courting a women to the bedroom.

Of course you still have to play ‘the game’.

Lead, lead, lead. ‘Bounce’, move the girl, don’t be static in one spot for to long.

Do shit with the girl. What I mean is not trying to get laid but doing activities together.

Keep leading her to different activities.

I noticed through this process ‘Pair Bonding’ is created and, the women starts to cling to you’.

The second point is wanting to ‘fuck her’ less then her wanting to fuck you.

The reasoning behind this logic is that I noticed girls get turned off if your constantly ‘pulling’.

Women are more attracted to the ‘push’.

That means that you’ve gotta want it less then her.

Now I put a caveat to that. You can still have a sexual interest in her…. but less then her.

The end result is that you end up racking up “comfort time” as The Mystery Method says.

Now, the final step is to ‘risk’ loosing it all.

You have to now risk loosing the girl altogether by “Pulling the trigger” pua term.

But the point is this:

It’s “Pair bonding” and, “wanting it less then her” is were great strides are made in the courting process of dating.

Just my thoughts.

I know it sucks…you have to do shit with them!

Grounding the set

Today did a sarge in the city Melbourne.

13 sets / 5 hooks / 2 numbers.

Was waiting for a date to contact me for a Date 1. She flaked again.

Was doing sets in the city anyways.

Discovered that on grounding, you tell a story about what your currently doing.

I said that I was looking for a T shirt as I didn’t like the current one I had on.

Women love dressing guys. They always recommend a shop nearby.

Great topic for grounding the set.

Not like this American girl I stopped today. Had purple hair. Was nice.