This is my third date with a 26 Indonesian girl. She definitely fits the category of YHT.
Did a side stop on her in the china town food court mall area.
It was towards the end of the day on Saturday 5:30 ish.
She lit up like a christmas tree to my Daygame skill set.
First date did the usual stuff. No proximity. No hand hold.
Date two touched her ankle sock as we sat in the library. She recoiled slightly.
Date three went to the beach and fed the seagulls. Proximity was on. Hand hold was on. From there she allowed me to kino her over the course of the day and night. Almost got the kiss. Eyes kept looking away after eye contact. Not at my lips.
Did all the verbal escalation stuff. She responded well to it on date 3.
Big lesson learnt from this girl;
“The game is played in comfort” The Mystery Method.
Being sociable is more important then being sexual. Being sexual comes second.
Always hold the frame. Avoid leaning in at all times. She will test. But let her close the proximity. She will do this slowly over time and after some sufficient testing.
Each girl has their own level of comfort time before they start to trust you.
The average being 2 to 3 dates if not an SDL.
Maybe upto 4 to 5 for some other types of girls.
I hope my experience helps you.
Biggest lesson to take away. Keep jumping in front of those girls with ‘The London Front Stop’.
It was a Friday night. I was waiting at the local tavern restaurant type establishment. I was waiting for the Milf to arrive. She was about 15 minutes late.
She soon arrived. She apologized for being late. She said she had been kept back at the office. It was a good sign to start the date.
I said it’s a bit late for coffee, let’s get a couple of drinks. Do you drink wine. She said sure, good idea. Another great sign that she was up for it that night.
I said do you drink red or white. She preferred red so I said hold these seats and, I’ll get us two house wines in the red colour.
We sat down with our wines and preceeded to fill each other in on our life stories. Past present and, future is what is referred to in Game as ‘deep connection’.
After we finished our first round, I suggested that we proceed to the pub across the road. Sure enough, she was up for it. So I lead her across the road to the pub on the corner.
She ordered her meal and, I ordered another round of drinks. This time she was up for a sparkling white wine and, she paid for it.
Great sign of investment. Any time a girl invests is a sure sign that she genuinely is attracted to you. The evening was looking good.
We chatted more, while I started to kino, and do verbal escalation.
She was into it all. Half way through her meal she got up and, said that she had to go to the bathroom. Another great sign. Means that she’s pampering up her face to get ready for some action.
We left the venue and, I decided to lead by holding her hand. She loved it and, started resting her head on my left shoulder.
In a book written by 60 years of challenge he talks about how the hands of a women don’t lie. If she gives you her hand and, you mutually caress it and, she does the same back to you. Then it’s a sure sign that she’s into you.
If she does not give you her hand, then you are getting tooled.
She also was closing the proximity on me as I was holding her hand. She did this by snuggling up to me as we walked back to the car.
I decided to go in for the kiss. Bingo she loved it and, we started french kissing. She was really good at twirling her tongue around my tongue. It was fucking awesome and, I was thinking how good is this. Only by doing Daygame do you get these privileges.
By the way, just a note on her dress. Long black zip up fuck me boots, sexy as hell, and a tight pair of dark blue denim jeans to accentuate her ass and curves. I leaned in and, smelt her neck. She smelt like strawberries mixed with vanilla. I was thinking what a fucking great night I’m having.
The mission in my head was to get my first lay from Game and to prove all this mind wank stuff REALLY works. To also get my first reference experience with banging a chick from Daygame.
It was all starting to come together. All the pieces of the puzzle as layed out in Nick Krauser’s books and, more importantly the GREAT Tom Torero. May he rest in peace. I consider him to be the Godfather of Daygame in my book with a close equal Nick Krauser.
Just before I go back to the story, I have to note that this opportunity would not be possible, not even considered back in my chode days.
Yes I’m going to admit it. I was a chode and, had a purity fantasy about women for most of my life. Now I realize how wrong I am and, how right guys (Kings) like Krauser and, Torero are on the biology between Men and, Women.
Back to the story, there I was walking hand in hand, kissing her tongue deep. As I was kissing her, I thought of this dark alley way I knew off on the way.
So I walked her there and, into the shadows of this quiet dark lane way. I pushed her up against the wall and, stiff armed her throat. She lit up with a big beaming smile. Her eyes glazed over her. She looked like she was high on cocaine. I then proceeded to kiss her. We french kissed for a bit. I put my hand on the top of her head and, pushed her down to indicate what would happen next.
She got the hint and…….
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Had a date 1 coffee filter date with a K Japanese girl.
Analysis;
1. Deep connection = tick
2. Lead = tick
3. Eyes = tick
4. Verbal escalation;
● Men and women be friends: tick
● Why are you single: had a boyfriend
● What type of guys do you date: tick
● 3 things I like in a girl: ASD on second hair smell attempt. Shoes to underwear verbal was a pass. Lipstick test was a fail as she had a mask on.
● What do you do for fun: tick
● What are your guilty pleasures: tick
● When was last time you had sex: “2 years ago with my boyfriend”
Then I started talking about vibrators.
She was pretty ok with that question. Big tick.
Sat down at the park bench side by side. Proximity was of. Legs crossed away from me so negative body language. So I lead her back to the train station. I decided to ‘Push’ her away and, cut the date short. I lead her to the train station, said I have to go, nice to meet you, gave her a kiss on the cheek. She allowed it, green light. She was suprised and, wanted to continue to follow but I said if you go that way, that will take you home, I have to go.
Looked nothing like her. Date was a HB 8. Can you see the nipple!
I’ve dated a few birds now. On the date I have discovered a pattern amongst them all.
Non Time waster type girls tend to not talk very much and, respond to your talkative mood and, wear a short skirt (clear sign she’s up for it).
Time waster types I noticed have these signs in common;
1. They talk a lot. They talk so much that they dominate the conversation. It’s a subtle frame snatch and, shit test done silently under the radar on you.
2. They don’t allow any incidental hand touching.
3. They avoid closing the proximity on you and, are always at some distance from you.
Just my thoughts on some dates I had.
“Don’t waste my mutha facking time?!” Al pacino in the movie ‘Heat’.
What I’ve noticed since I started ‘game’ and, what means more to the girl then sex is ‘pair bonding’ and, wanting ‘sex’ less then the girl.
Now I know some of you reading this are gonna be like ‘your talking shite’ and, that ‘you gotta strike while the iron is hot etc etc da di da…di da?!’.
The fact of the matter, through my own experience of what I have seen and done is that ‘Daygame’ gives you an introduction and, connection to the girl but ultimately it’s ‘time spent in comfort’ that has the greatest impact.
‘Pair Bonding’ and, kino’ing at the same time ‘on’ and, ‘off’ are by far the 2 most powerful things in courting a women to the bedroom.
Of course you still have to play ‘the game’.
Lead, lead, lead. ‘Bounce’, move the girl, don’t be static in one spot for to long.
Do shit with the girl. What I mean is not trying to get laid but doing activities together.
Keep leading her to different activities.
I noticed through this process ‘Pair Bonding’ is created and, the women starts to cling to you’.
The second point is wanting to ‘fuck her’ less then her wanting to fuck you.
The reasoning behind this logic is that I noticed girls get turned off if your constantly ‘pulling’.
Women are more attracted to the ‘push’.
That means that you’ve gotta want it less then her.
Now I put a caveat to that. You can still have a sexual interest in her…. but less then her.
The end result is that you end up racking up “comfort time” as The Mystery Method says.
Now, the final step is to ‘risk’ loosing it all.
You have to now risk loosing the girl altogether by “Pulling the trigger” pua term.
But the point is this:
It’s “Pair bonding” and, “wanting it less then her” is were great strides are made in the courting process of dating.
Went on a date last night with this 8ish Filipino girl 26. She had a body like on the special k commercial. Lot’s of AI’s dreamy eyes etc. Massive smiles.
I want to talk about how women shit test you right of the bat. They start to shit test you over the text when your teeing up the meet.
What I learnt about the right frame is this?
Women are like cats and, the man is the master or cat owner so to speak.
In the context of a date; the cat serves it’s owner with affection etc.
In return the owner looks after the cat and, has it’s best welfare at heart.
The owner does not serve the cat. The owner does not go to the cat. The cat comes to the owner while the owner is doing their own thing.
The owner either furnishes the cat with affection or not based on their own mood.
Simply put, he is the master and, he is in control of what happens to the cat.
Just something to think about next time your on a date with a broad.
You set the meet place, venues etc, not her.
You tell her “no”.
You tell her “were doing xyz”.
It’s your way or the highway.
Similar look to her…dressed in tight black dress up to her butt almost.
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