Tag: dating

How to spot a Time waster

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Coaching, Field Report, Mindwank

I’ve been on a few dates now and I think I can spot a timewaster.

Try this next time your on a date. Go quiet. Say nothing. Silence will give you the answer.

She will do one of three things;

1. She will continue to talk alot like a motor mouth and not allow you to fill the gaps. When she runs out of things to say she will then vacuum you. This is her trying to qualify you. It’s a subtle frame battle. =

Shes a timewaster.

2. She asks you a question to fill the silence. This means she is a genuine girl who is genuinely attracted to you. She will usually have a two way conversation with you. =

Maybe or Yes girl

3. She does not invest. She allows the silence to continue. Shes ok with the silence dragging on for a long time. =

No girl

This type of girl has either got a boyfriend and is not willing to upgrade OR she is not attracted to you. She just wants free attention from a push over beta.

Now with that knowledge in mind, go forth and multiply 😁

No hoper set yesterday!

Mistakes

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Instant dates, Mindwank, Second Dates

I’ve learnt alot since I’ve started down the path of Daygame.

I can say that after about 7 – 800 sets, I have dated 11 girls. I’ve been on multiple dates etc and, have fucked up nearly all of them accept 1.

I’ve gotten laid on that 1. I think she might have been a yes girl. Who knows.

Anyways apart from my rant, I’ve learnt some things which I’m eager to implement once the lockdown ends.

Yep Australia is still in lockdown. What a shit country….seriously.

Just my thoughts so far on Daygame.

Breakdown of each date thus far;

First date was with a Chinese HB8. Coffee instant date. Learnt to lead to coffee venue. Touched hips cause they were so nice like a cat walk models. Learnt about deep rapport.

Tried for venue two alcohol but announced it to her. That was a mistake.

Instead lead her to the tram stop home. Was a perfect time to kiss but I didn’t know what I was doing cause I was a beginner.

Second date with her was a disaster. She had snatched the frame off me. I decided instead to pick up another girl using her as pre selection. That other girl flaked later on the text.

Will post about my date with girl number 2 on the next post.

Just something to look at…similar to her!

The Mystery Method

Posted on by ozidaygamer in First Dates, Mindwank

I had a 4 – 5 hour 1st date the other night.

I come to realise the importance of ‘comfort building’ while running physical compliance tests.

The physical compliance tests are to spike things up and, to see where you are in set.

The Mystery Method book refers to this concept as “the game is played in comfort”.

Meaning that you need to spend between 4 to 10 hours of time on building comfort. The average being 7 hours.

The seduction stage cannot begin until the comfort stage has finished and, you have built enough comfort.

The M3 sequencing model is as such;

1.Attraction 2.Comfort 3.Seduction

The model based on science is linear and, any attempts to do them out of sequence will result in the following;

1.Attraction 3.Seduction =Buyers remorse

1.Attraction 2.Comfort =Friendzone

2.Comfort 3.Seduction =Bitch shield

3.Seduction =Foolsmate

Which brings me to the conclusion that mode one is limited because it’s foolsmate.

Unless mode 1 is done after enough comfort has been built and, would form part of seduction.

Thoughts on the date?…..she was fucking ‘hot to trot’ 😉

Very powerful stuff.

2 missed lays

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Mindwank

The reason behind this post is to remind myself of 2 fundamental mistakes when dating;

Mistake 1: Not physically escalating.

Mistake 2: No or shit logistics

Solution to mistake 1, always kino on date using Krauser’s or Torero’s kino ladder.

As Steve Jabba said “You lose nothing but gain the respect of the women” if she’s not up for it cause she think’s it’s bold.

Solution to mistake 2, always have alcohol venue next to place where you will attempt the lay.

Failure on both these points has cost me 2 lays as a beginner starting out.

Just taking a breather from a sarge!