Tag: frame

How to spot a Time waster

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Coaching, Field Report, Mindwank

I’ve been on a few dates now and I think I can spot a timewaster.

Try this next time your on a date. Go quiet. Say nothing. Silence will give you the answer.

She will do one of three things;

1. She will continue to talk alot like a motor mouth and not allow you to fill the gaps. When she runs out of things to say she will then vacuum you. This is her trying to qualify you. It’s a subtle frame battle. =

Shes a timewaster.

2. She asks you a question to fill the silence. This means she is a genuine girl who is genuinely attracted to you. She will usually have a two way conversation with you. =

Maybe or Yes girl

3. She does not invest. She allows the silence to continue. Shes ok with the silence dragging on for a long time. =

No girl

This type of girl has either got a boyfriend and is not willing to upgrade OR she is not attracted to you. She just wants free attention from a push over beta.

Now with that knowledge in mind, go forth and multiply 😁

No hoper set yesterday!

Polarity

Posted on by ozidaygamer in First Dates, Mindwank

Went on a date last night with this 8ish Filipino girl 26. She had a body like on the special k commercial. Lot’s of AI’s dreamy eyes etc. Massive smiles.

I want to talk about how women shit test you right of the bat. They start to shit test you over the text when your teeing up the meet.

What I learnt about the right frame is this?

Women are like cats and, the man is the master or cat owner so to speak.

In the context of a date; the cat serves it’s owner with affection etc.

In return the owner looks after the cat and, has it’s best welfare at heart.

The owner does not serve the cat. The owner does not go to the cat. The cat comes to the owner while the owner is doing their own thing.

The owner either furnishes the cat with affection or not based on their own mood.

Simply put, he is the master and, he is in control of what happens to the cat.

Just something to think about next time your on a date with a broad.

You set the meet place, venues etc, not her.

You tell her “no”.

You tell her “were doing xyz”.

It’s your way or the highway.

Similar look to her…dressed in tight black dress up to her butt almost.