Comfort time is King

I just wanted to write a post about a few things in particular. These things have been proven in my eyes with a particular girl that I have been dating from Daygame.

1. As written by Chris Odom in the book ‘Revelations’. He says on a date you want to be outcome independent and just see were things go naturally.

I think this inner game mindset is very, very powerful because it allows the girl to feel comfortable with you and, try and make a connection.

The Mystery Method spoke about 7 hours being the average but to be fair its more like 14 on average.

Contrary to public opinion you can trade your way out of the friendzone if you get put in there. I have done this before.

I noticed that there has always been this big debate about direct vs indirect. I think most guys are focused on the smaller picture.

The bigger picture is more important. Actually its fundamental to female biology. That is a women needs to feel comfortable with you to sleep with you.

Most guys think with their dick and, don’t see it from her point of view or natures point of view.

If guys just adhered to minimum 2+ dates before they started escalating then I think his results would go up.

This whole idea about ‘what do I say’ is also missing the point. If a girl is not interested in sleeping with you then she will NOT shit test you.

Every girl has her timeline when it comes to feeling comfortable with you.

Think of the girl. Put the girl first. Yes thats right put her front and centre first before yourself. She will think ‘fuck this guy is not such a wierd cunt after all’. She’ll probably even sleep with you at some point.

Whether it takes 2 dates or 10. Does it matter. As long as she’s still hanging around with you. She thinks your a cool guy.

Cool guys get laid. Wankers don’t.

Just my thoughts.

Nick Krauser’s ‘Daygame Infinite’. Great book. Get it.

Less is more

One of the things I’m starting to realise with women is the concept of ● Less is more.

● Social comes before sexual

● Comfort comes before Seduction

● When you spike infer it. 2 x Comfort 1 x spike = 2 steps backwsrds, 1 step forwards

● Seduction stage 2 x spike 1 x Comfort = 2 steps forwards, 1 step backwards

● Speak less. Parrot and Vacuum more especially on dates

● Do Deep connection before Seduction

● Hold the frame. Don’t lean in. Turn of.

● I.O.D before you I.O.I

Infer your intent, don’t go overt.

Etc. You get the point.

Boy girl syndrome. Boy rejects girl, girl chases boy.

A date 3 the other day.

Comfort

This post is about comfort time and the love bubble.

On the back end dating I think women are attracted to romance or aka the love bubble. Most guys cant give that. Most guys can only give cock or provider stuff.

I notice girls crave the movie moment on a date. Bounce lead bounce lead. Test proximity. Kiss.

They are all movie moments.

The other thing I noticed on the back end is being as socially normal as  possible.

Women love socially normal guys. The more you do social stuff with her and the less you try sexual stuff with her it builds the anticipation of sex occuring at some point in the future.

Women love this feeling.

You dont seek an outcome and her love juices bubble while you reframe from sexual overtones. Hence the anticipation going up in her mind.

Women are natural at the feeling of sex. Its automatic. So I advocate doing less. Matter of fact do nothing. Let her heat up in her love juices. She’s automatically doing it for you.

All you have to do is walk around with her and do shit. Wait for the proxy close and hold her hand.

No proximity. No hand hold.

Means no physicality from her. Its never gonna happen. Sex that is. She doesnt see you as sexually attractive. Let her go. Next!!!

But

if she allows proximity then hand hold will occur automatically. Then kiss close. Your on your way 😉

The trick is to walk her around like a puppy dog.

Rack up time in comfort.

The average being 7 hours according to The Mystery Method.

In memory of Tom Torero.

How to spot a Time waster

I’ve been on a few dates now and I think I can spot a timewaster.

Try this next time your on a date. Go quiet. Say nothing. Silence will give you the answer.

She will do one of three things;

1. She will continue to talk alot like a motor mouth and not allow you to fill the gaps. When she runs out of things to say she will then vacuum you. This is her trying to qualify you. It’s a subtle frame battle. =

Shes a timewaster.

2. She asks you a question to fill the silence. This means she is a genuine girl who is genuinely attracted to you. She will usually have a two way conversation with you. =

Maybe or Yes girl

3. She does not invest. She allows the silence to continue. Shes ok with the silence dragging on for a long time. =

No girl

This type of girl has either got a boyfriend and is not willing to upgrade OR she is not attracted to you. She just wants free attention from a push over beta.

Now with that knowledge in mind, go forth and multiply 😁

No hoper set yesterday!

Subcommunication

There are some basic truths, I’ve learnt from chatting up women on the street.

The power of subcommunication. Being in the moment with your thoughts and, expressing them through the implied.

That authenticity or spontaneity is your VIBE.

Underneath that is your STATE.

Clearing your mind of the past and future. Expressing whatever comes into it in that moment is key.

The moment comes and the moment goes. A new moment comes and it goes again. You have to let go of that fleeting moment and embrace the new one just as quickly as the old one came and went. This is called being in the now. Being in the moment.

I noticed that women are designed to read facial expressions far better than men.

I think women are attracted to men who have the look of ‘now’.

This is the basis of attraction.

Think a wicked thought about her as you look into her eyes. See that thought crystalize in her eyes. Thats without saying anything.

If you have to say something sexual, infer it. Inference is more powerful then stating it.

Let her draw her own conclusions. Let her imagination run wild. It will do all the work for you. She will then connect those fantasies to you.

Remember, inference is King.

The I date that ended in a K close.

Sexual Tension

This is my first post in a while so apologies. Just been working and, doing lot’s of Front Stops 😁

Had some dates with some stunners. I’ve also been trying to maintain or up my value (artificially inflate it thru game).

I was also trying out some Mode 1 stuff over the phone for the seduction stage. Trying to bypass the dating part.

Here’s what I have learnt so far.

A.) Ross Jefferies is right about bursting the sexual tension bubble when you overtly talk about sex.

B.) Love Drop aka Chris Odom is correct about the key being ‘spontaneity’ is what women want when it comes to the F close.

C.) Love Drop is correct about women wanting ‘plausible deniability’ when it comes to the F close.

D.) Nick Krauser is correct about women having a ‘Timeline’. LMR occurs when you are pushing for the F close ahead of her timeline. Or as Mystery says “the game is played in comfort”.

This is where I think Mode One can work. Hear me out for a moment. I’m now about to make the arguement supporting the ‘Radical Honesty’ concept with girls.

I think about 15% of women are R select. With those type of girls I found overt sexualised speech can be used as Attraction material. It does work to attract the girl but you still have to do comfort when you meet her. You still have to have some value which shows up or doesn’t on the F date.

R select women still have their timeline and, it’s different for all women.

R select women know your casual sex material and, not a prospect for a relationship before the lay has occured. They might wiggle of the hook if a relationship type guy comes along. Hence missing out on the lay.

The R select girl still has to be somewhat available. (Krauser “most girls are not available”.)

How to pick the R select type on the street?

Long floppy hand hold. Allows the proximity to be encroached. Direct eyes plus smile and maybe giggle. Laughs at everything you say.

Note: I have not tried Mode one on the street. I don’t recommend it. I have tried it over the phone on R select girls who have invested on the text first.

Some Peacocking during a Daygame set!