Had a date 1 coffee filter date with a K Japanese girl.
1. Deep connection = tick
2. Lead = tick
3. Eyes = tick
4. Verbal escalation;
● Men and women be friends: tick
● Why are you single: had a boyfriend
● What type of guys do you date: tick
● 3 things I like in a girl: ASD on second hair smell attempt. Shoes to underwear verbal was a pass. Lipstick test was a fail as she had a mask on.
● What do you do for fun: tick
● What are your guilty pleasures: tick
● When was last time you had sex: “2 years ago with my boyfriend”
Then I started talking about vibrators.
She was pretty ok with that question. Big tick.
Sat down at the park bench side by side. Proximity was of. Legs crossed away from me so negative body language. So I lead her back to the train station. I decided to ‘Push’ her away and, cut the date short. I lead her to the train station, said I have to go, nice to meet you, gave her a kiss on the cheek. She allowed it, green light. She was suprised and, wanted to continue to follow but I said if you go that way, that will take you home, I have to go.
Looked nothing like her. Date was a HB 8. Can you see the nipple!
What I’ve noticed since I started ‘game’ and, what means more to the girl then sex is ‘pair bonding’ and, wanting ‘sex’ less then the girl.
Now I know some of you reading this are gonna be like ‘your talking shite’ and, that ‘you gotta strike while the iron is hot etc etc da di da…di da?!’.
The fact of the matter, through my own experience of what I have seen and done is that ‘Daygame’ gives you an introduction and, connection to the girl but ultimately it’s ‘time spent in comfort’ that has the greatest impact.
‘Pair Bonding’ and, kino’ing at the same time ‘on’ and, ‘off’ are by far the 2 most powerful things in courting a women to the bedroom.
Of course you still have to play ‘the game’.
Lead, lead, lead. ‘Bounce’, move the girl, don’t be static in one spot for to long.
Do shit with the girl. What I mean is not trying to get laid but doing activities together.
Keep leading her to different activities.
I noticed through this process ‘Pair Bonding’ is created and, the women starts to cling to you’.
The second point is wanting to ‘fuck her’ less then her wanting to fuck you.
The reasoning behind this logic is that I noticed girls get turned off if your constantly ‘pulling’.
Women are more attracted to the ‘push’.
That means that you’ve gotta want it less then her.
Now I put a caveat to that. You can still have a sexual interest in her…. but less then her.
The end result is that you end up racking up “comfort time” as The Mystery Method says.
Now, the final step is to ‘risk’ loosing it all.
You have to now risk loosing the girl altogether by “Pulling the trigger” pua term.
But the point is this:
It’s “Pair bonding” and, “wanting it less then her” is were great strides are made in the courting process of dating.