Subcommunication

There are some basic truths, I’ve learnt from chatting up women on the street.

The power of subcommunication. Being in the moment with your thoughts and, expressing them through the implied.

That authenticity or spontaneity is your VIBE.

Underneath that is your STATE.

Clearing your mind of the past and future. Expressing whatever comes into it in that moment is key.

The moment comes and the moment goes. A new moment comes and it goes again. You have to let go of that fleeting moment and embrace the new one just as quickly as the old one came and went. This is called being in the now. Being in the moment.

I noticed that women are designed to read facial expressions far better than men.

I think women are attracted to men who have the look of ‘now’.

This is the basis of attraction.

Think a wicked thought about her as you look into her eyes. See that thought crystalize in her eyes. Thats without saying anything.

If you have to say something sexual, infer it. Inference is more powerful then stating it.

Let her draw her own conclusions. Let her imagination run wild. It will do all the work for you. She will then connect those fantasies to you.

Remember, inference is King.

The I date that ended in a K close.

Girl no. 7 Date

Was the day after the previous girl. Was still the long weekend and, had decided to share a hotel room with my wing the night before.

Had been sarging all day, was exhausted and, had hit my 16th set when I did a front stop on a HB7 couger.

She was on from the start. Nice hand hold, nice eye fucking and, close proximity.

Ran a solid 5 minute set, then she closed me. That was a suprise.

I read that as a BIG IOI.

Looked like a SDL or SDDL.

Setup a double date with my wing and, his set as he had pulled that day too.

His girl flaked and, it ended up just being me, him and, my date.

I think 2 guys rocking up on the date that night triggered some ASD. She was off from the start.

We all shared a bottle of red wine but her proximity was off and, no hand hold. Got stuck in general chit chat about careers and, shit.

Lesson learnt, don’t bring your wing onto a date.

She was Slovakian but a local girl. Similar to her.