Sarged on Saturday and, discovered a little glitch in the game:
Was doing more front stops (Nick Krauser was right). Front stops scare the girl a little and, get her submitting from the start. Very powerful. Was doing more of them and, with the 3 things you need (eye contact, stop signal with hand gesture and, most important **Conviction**).
2nd discovery was teasing and, challenging. The revelation that dawned on me was that you gotta keep hitting her with a wide array of teases not just one. The objective should be to get the girl rooted to the ground with her feet like a tree so she doesn’t keep moving. You achieve this through constant bombardment of teases and, challenges.
Try to keep this up for as long as possible or until she asks a question.
The trick is in the spontaneity of the teasing.
The moment you sense she is about to start moving her feet, close her out with the Tom Torero close.
First she will say, “I gotta get going I’m meeting a friend”. Then her feet will shift slightly away from you. You will be able to feel this shift when the set is near it’s end.
Then close “You’ve gotta go, I’ve gotta go….but another time, I’d like to invite you out for a cup of coffee……what do you say?”
If she does not use the word ‘no’ then anything else is a signal to lead and, take her number.
“I’ll get your number”. Hand her the phone.
A couple of the girls initiated the feeler text straight away after closing a couple of hours later.
Never had that happen before.