One of the things I’m starting to realise with women is the concept of ● Less is more.
● Social comes before sexual
● Comfort comes before Seduction
● When you spike infer it. 2 x Comfort 1 x spike = 2 steps backwsrds, 1 step forwards
● Seduction stage 2 x spike 1 x Comfort = 2 steps forwards, 1 step backwards
● Speak less. Parrot and Vacuum more especially on dates
● Do Deep connection before Seduction
● Hold the frame. Don’t lean in. Turn of.
● I.O.D before you I.O.I
Infer your intent, don’t go overt.
Etc. You get the point.
Boy girl syndrome. Boy rejects girl, girl chases boy.
Had a discussion with my wing today as we did some sets. Forgot my train of thought. Then messaged him later about it.
This post is about comfort time and the love bubble.
On the back end dating I think women are attracted to romance or aka the love bubble. Most guys cant give that. Most guys can only give cock or provider stuff.
I notice girls crave the movie moment on a date. Bounce lead bounce lead. Test proximity. Kiss.
They are all movie moments.
The other thing I noticed on the back end is being as socially normal as possible.
Women love socially normal guys. The more you do social stuff with her and the less you try sexual stuff with her it builds the anticipation of sex occuring at some point in the future.
Women love this feeling.
You dont seek an outcome and her love juices bubble while you reframe from sexual overtones. Hence the anticipation going up in her mind.
Women are natural at the feeling of sex. Its automatic. So I advocate doing less. Matter of fact do nothing. Let her heat up in her love juices. She’s automatically doing it for you.
All you have to do is walk around with her and do shit. Wait for the proxy close and hold her hand.
No proximity. No hand hold.
Means no physicality from her. Its never gonna happen. Sex that is. She doesnt see you as sexually attractive. Let her go. Next!!!
if she allows proximity then hand hold will occur automatically. Then kiss close. Your on your way 😉
The trick is to walk her around like a puppy dog.
Rack up time in comfort.
The average being 7 hours according to The Mystery Method.