Tag: pick-up

Comfort

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Coaching, Mindwank

This post is about comfort time and the love bubble.

On the back end dating I think women are attracted to romance or aka the love bubble. Most guys cant give that. Most guys can only give cock or provider stuff.

I notice girls crave the movie moment on a date. Bounce lead bounce lead. Test proximity. Kiss.

They are all movie moments.

The other thing I noticed on the back end is being as socially normal as  possible.

Women love socially normal guys. The more you do social stuff with her and the less you try sexual stuff with her it builds the anticipation of sex occuring at some point in the future.

Women love this feeling.

You dont seek an outcome and her love juices bubble while you reframe from sexual overtones. Hence the anticipation going up in her mind.

Women are natural at the feeling of sex. Its automatic. So I advocate doing less. Matter of fact do nothing. Let her heat up in her love juices. She’s automatically doing it for you.

All you have to do is walk around with her and do shit. Wait for the proxy close and hold her hand.

No proximity. No hand hold.

Means no physicality from her. Its never gonna happen. Sex that is. She doesnt see you as sexually attractive. Let her go. Next!!!

But

if she allows proximity then hand hold will occur automatically. Then kiss close. Your on your way 😉

The trick is to walk her around like a puppy dog.

Rack up time in comfort.

The average being 7 hours according to The Mystery Method.

In memory of Tom Torero.

Subcommunication

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Instant dates, Mindwank

There are some basic truths, I’ve learnt from chatting up women on the street.

The power of subcommunication. Being in the moment with your thoughts and, expressing them through the implied.

That authenticity or spontaneity is your VIBE.

Underneath that is your STATE.

Clearing your mind of the past and future. Expressing whatever comes into it in that moment is key.

The moment comes and the moment goes. A new moment comes and it goes again. You have to let go of that fleeting moment and embrace the new one just as quickly as the old one came and went. This is called being in the now. Being in the moment.

I noticed that women are designed to read facial expressions far better than men.

I think women are attracted to men who have the look of ‘now’.

This is the basis of attraction.

Think a wicked thought about her as you look into her eyes. See that thought crystalize in her eyes. Thats without saying anything.

If you have to say something sexual, infer it. Inference is more powerful then stating it.

Let her draw her own conclusions. Let her imagination run wild. It will do all the work for you. She will then connect those fantasies to you.

Remember, inference is King.

The I date that ended in a K close.

Proximity

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Field Report, Instant dates, Mindwank

I had my best day out doing Daygame yesterday.

Had a stunning girl on an idate and, k closed her.

I just wanted to write about the things I learnt from the idate.

What I learnt from nature is the concept of pair bonding. E.g when you see a bird in your backyard for the first time they tend to run away. As time goes on and, you continue to see the same bird I noticed that they start to come closer.

They even start to hang out with you when your around.

It’s because they are pair bonding with you and thus trust you.

You see this with pigs and sheep on farms. If they are together long enough they become a herd. Best mates

I think Men and Women are the same. So what I do is walk the girl from the pickup location to the coffee shop. From the coffee shop to the park. From the park to the alcohol venue etc.

As you do this I noticed the girl starts to accept you more. She is pair bonding with you from walking with you. You lead and she follows. Just like walking a dog. To clarify girls are not dogs by the way. You get my point.

Then you can start the hands, isolation, k close process.

Just be aware not to go past the point of no return. Refer to The Mystery Method book on this point.

The texting that followed.

Sexual Tension

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Mindwank

This is my first post in a while so apologies. Just been working and, doing lot’s of Front Stops 😁

Had some dates with some stunners. I’ve also been trying to maintain or up my value (artificially inflate it thru game).

I was also trying out some Mode 1 stuff over the phone for the seduction stage. Trying to bypass the dating part.

Here’s what I have learnt so far.

A.) Ross Jefferies is right about bursting the sexual tension bubble when you overtly talk about sex.

B.) Love Drop aka Chris Odom is correct about the key being ‘spontaneity’ is what women want when it comes to the F close.

C.) Love Drop is correct about women wanting ‘plausible deniability’ when it comes to the F close.

D.) Nick Krauser is correct about women having a ‘Timeline’. LMR occurs when you are pushing for the F close ahead of her timeline. Or as Mystery says “the game is played in comfort”.

This is where I think Mode One can work. Hear me out for a moment. I’m now about to make the arguement supporting the ‘Radical Honesty’ concept with girls.

I think about 15% of women are R select. With those type of girls I found overt sexualised speech can be used as Attraction material. It does work to attract the girl but you still have to do comfort when you meet her. You still have to have some value which shows up or doesn’t on the F date.

R select women still have their timeline and, it’s different for all women.

R select women know your casual sex material and, not a prospect for a relationship before the lay has occured. They might wiggle of the hook if a relationship type guy comes along. Hence missing out on the lay.

The R select girl still has to be somewhat available. (Krauser “most girls are not available”.)

How to pick the R select type on the street?

Long floppy hand hold. Allows the proximity to be encroached. Direct eyes plus smile and maybe giggle. Laughs at everything you say.

Note: I have not tried Mode one on the street. I don’t recommend it. I have tried it over the phone on R select girls who have invested on the text first.

Some Peacocking during a Daygame set!

Time Waster’s

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Mindwank

Hi there fellow daygamer.

So far 300 sets in and, what I have learnt?

When you manage to get phone number’s this is what happens:

Half ghost you,

The other half of that half are Time waster’s.

Leave’s you with only a fraction left over that are direct with you and, don’t play games.

Alan Roger Currie has a book on this subject matter about Time Waster’s. His book is called ‘No Free Attention: How Women use The Possibility of Sex to Manipulate Naive and, Lustful Men’.

Red Quest has a blog post on this subject as well about how alot of daygamer’s experience this phenomenon alot on dates especially with girls in their early 20’s. Seem’s to be most common.

So how does a daygamer screen out Time Waster’s?

What I have noticed is that when you do teasing and, challenging you end up with alot of Time Waster’s.

Here’s the trick, if you do sexual tension at the beginning of the set, I found you screen out alot of Time Waster’s and, end up with a smaller amount of phone number’s but you also end up with more Instant Dates which end with solid numbers.

According to Alan Roger Currie’s book you have 2 types of Time Waster’s.

One is a normal type and, the other is a cock teaser.

I found that if you do sexual tension at the beginning of the set (see Steve Jabba for how to do sexual tension) you cull out the normal type of Time Waster.

But you are still left with the cock teaser Time Waster.

And the direct girls who are up for it, sex that is.

Lesson’s learnt after 300 sets in field?

1. Do Maradona move to test for sexual tension as soon as possible right at the beginning of set.

2. If you get a handshake do sexual tension (again check out Steve Jabba to learn how to do sexual tension).

3. Then go into your teasing routine as normal and, rapport, qualification etc.

4. Over text messaging vacuum for 24 to 48 hours before sending the 2nd text, then call her.

5. Get her on the phone, rack up comfort time and, seduction both at the same time over the phone. (If you wanna know how to do seduction over the phone just send me an email: paulnic510@gmail.com

Now that your armed with more knowledge to your arsenal….go forth and, multiply?!

I mean conquer.

Model from the weekend in a 2 set, similar to her but younger

Thursday’s Score Card

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Field Report

Was sarging with a mate and, he number closed for the first time. Was good to see. He was on a mental high after that and, started opening every gorgeous young thing we came across.

I was getting a bit jealous but that’s a good thing.

I was struggling with alot of married women. I was sarging during office hours so I was coming across more of them. Lot’s of it’s On sets thou, very good.

Toward’s the end of the day near the end of a 4 hour sarge, I got an IOI green light from a young stunner from across the street.

Like a lion I went after her and did a front stop. She loved it. Had a 7 minute kooing giggling and, flirtatious set. Number closed her and, was on my way.

That set blew my mind and, I was on a mental high after that. Made the entire days work worthwhile.

Similar to her but younger

My First Post

Posted on by ozidaygamer in Field Report

I start this blog at set 186. This blog is for the aspiring daygamer who has not done many sets and, wants to follow in my footsteps from a newb.

To acknowledge first our forefathers that come before us; Nick Krauser BIG SHOUT OUT to him, Steve da Jabba THE NATURAL, and Tom Torero for da FUNDAMENTALS.

Abit about me; Aussie from down under, not literally ; get the pun.

Melbourne, Australia.

Aspiring daygamer, following in the footsteps of the Poms (an Englishman).

My successes so far: close but no cigar, all around it thanks to Steve da Jabba’s advice.

Met heaps of hotties, got 7 no.s, no dates yet but working on it.

My bio: 39 yrs old, bald white guy, tall, lanky, single.

End of first post, will keep you posted on how my 7th phone no. pans out )

Hottie from the weekend with a wing in a 2 set (pic below)

Similar to her but with big tits.