This podcast is a follow on from podcast no.1 about taking action.
Key concepts:
1. Pickup as a trojan horse
2. Torero’s 10 commandments
Taking Action part two
Tag: Pickup
Taking Action
Podcast 1. Taking Action
No girls
I just wanted to write a post about No girls.
Daygame is hard. It’s very hard. There’s a section at the end of ‘Balls Deep’ author Nick Krauser about most girls being a No.
It’s an interesting view on biology and, why most girls you’ll meet will be a No.
I won’t go into the biological take on why most girls are no. It’s highly recommended that you read Nick Krauser’s ‘Balls Deep’ memoir. In particular the part at the end of the book about why most girls are no.
What I will talk about in this blog post is that there is a sliding scale of No to Yes. A girl could fit anywhere on that scale.
Let’s say a 1 is an extreme Yes girl and a 10 is an extreme No girl. Let’s say a 5 is in the middle.
According to Krauser’s biological take on the subject matter, most girls will be somewhat in the middle. Some might be a 6 or a 7 towards the No side.
Some might be a 3 or 4 on the Yes side. Meaning more likely to say Yes with enough comfort time.
5 is in the middle leaning toward a No.
So according to Krauser, most girls would be around the 4 to 8 levels of No. Also known as Maybe girls.
His saying the reason for this is that biologically women will produce a limited number of eggs throughout their life time.
A man will produce an unlimited number of sperm over his life spand.
Nature has programmed women to protect their limited supply of eggs, while programming the guy to propagate and, scatter his sperm with many women as possible over his life spand.
This allows the offspring to be as robust as can be so the next generation is strong enough to survive and, replicate the species.
So when a girl ends up being a No. You gotta work out on what scale is she a no.
You then play the percentages accordingly with comfort time based on each individual girl.
That’s why Same day lays are rare because only a small no. of girls are in the extreme Yes side of the scale.
That’s why the Game is played in the Maybe category.
Some girls are Maybe. Most girls are No.
That’s why you got to do the numbers. 30 – 50 sets a week.
Because most girls are No.
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50 shades
The Ups and, downs of Game
This post is going to be about the grind of game.
These are biological truths about game that I have experienced infield and, from reading literature about it. Mainly literature from Krauser and, Torero.
Fact No. 1
When you cold / warm approach you will find that most women are not attracted to most guys. I found the ratio to be 3 out of 4.
Fact No. 2
For the girls that are attracted to me. That is 1 out of 4, most are not available. Some are on the fence with their current boyfriend partner etc. Only a small number of those attracted girls are available.
Fact 3
Those attracted girls who are available need some comfort time. Every girl has a different level of time needed in comfort. You have to assess how much time you need to spend with the girl on an individual basis.
Fact 4
Off the 3 out of 4 that are not attracted. There is a greater number of those girls who are available then the ones who are attracted and, available.
Fact 5
Out of every 4 girls that are attracted, 1 is aroused. Half of these 1’s who are aroused are not available. The other half are available. SDL’s, SNL’s and, SDDL’s are possible if you can pick the girl that is aroused and, available.
The ratios:
15 sets. 3 attracted girls. 1 aroused girl.
2 not available or maybe 1 is not available and, 1 is.
Of the aroused girls, 1 aroused girl is or is not available.
Comment below if your ratios differ or are about the same.
The lay
The Big Country
Watched this movie the other night. Was made back in 1958. Was an epic movie. All the attraction switches and, social sexual hierarchy stuff was in it.
Reminded me of the 5 attraction switches in the Mystery Method.
1. Leader of Men
2. Protector of loved ones
3. Ability to emote freely
4. Risk taking
5. Pre-selection
These are the 5 main attraction switches in women when it comes to being attracted to a guy.
That movie sumed it up in a nutshell. Great movie. Made well before PC was invented.
Made me think that the ‘London Front Stop’ and, the ‘London Daygame Model’ has at least 3 attraction switches triggered in the women. Maybe you can guess which ones they are?
Thank god for Yad, Krauser, Torero and, Jabba. My favourite Daygamers.
The Instant Date that almost resulted in a Kiss Close.
How to Tease and, challenge
1. Say what you see and ‘twist’ it.
2. Say what your thinking in the moment.
3. Say what your feeling in the moment.
4. Recognise that the moment comes….and it goes. Grab onto the new moment and, express it out loud.
Women are attracted to men who freely emote verbally.
The Bird Song
Key moments in a pickup attempt.
1. Chance meeting. It’s what a girl wants. “We just met by chance. What are the chances” = Front stop.
2. Using your eyes to fuck the girl in the street = Eye mesmer.
3. Romance. “I want to be romanced” = Sexually desire me in the most covert way possible so no one knows but you and, me.
4. I want a man = Lead, bounce, lead, lead, bounce.
5. I think his right for me = Attraction is in the push. 2 pushes and, 1 pull over the text messaging.
6. Comfort building = Physically escalate. 2 steps forward, 1 step back.
7. “We are not gonna have sex” = Tell me verbally that you don’t want me sexually. I’ll then probably jump your bones.
8. “It just happened” = Not my fault we had sex. It was natural. It was by chance. It just happened!
Fools mate
These are my thoughts on Mode One and, Pickup.
I think most women’s threshold for “comfort” sit somewhere in the middle.
To paraphrase Steve Jabba “Every womens comfort level is different. Some need more comfort, some need less. Some don’t need any comfort at all and, will just fuck”.
The Mystery Method writes “To begin with Seduction first is Fools mate”.
I think only a tiny number of girls are “Yes girls” which Mode One would work on. Even then they are gonna want some comfort afterwards and, would probarly ghost you once you go down a gear to comfort building.
All the girls I fucked on the first or second date ended up ghosting me afterwards.
I think it’s because of “Buyers Remorse”.
The pro’s and, con’s of both sides of the coin?
Overt direct Mode one communication;
Pros = Filters out Time Wasters. Filters for Yes girls.
Cons = Buyers Remorse. She wriggles of the hook before you’ve fucked her, a “Maybe girl” that is.
Covert Indirect Direct communication;
Pros = Comfort building, ongoing sex, socially acceptable.
Cons = Waste time on dates to nowhere with Timewaster types.
Ross Jeffries said “You burst the sexual tension bubble when you go overt”.
He said “women are attracted to sexual tension”. “Women are attracted to the anticipation of getting laid”.
My thoughts are this;
We are talking about biology and, millions of years of human evolution.
As The Mystery Method book states;
Back when we were cave men. The women wants to know that if she gets knocked up by you. That cave man you with a big stick will hang around to protect her and, the bun in her oven from the saba tooth tiger.
She doesn’t know it to be sure, she just feels it. Buyers remorse. It’s hard wired into her hind brain. Millions of years of evolution.
That’s why Tom Torero said “The crem dela crem of pickup is somewhere between indirect and, direct language”.
Indirect, Direct. Or it should be refered to as Direct, Indirect.
That is your Direct with your eyes, subcommunication and, touch. Your Indirect with your verbals.
Your On with your subcommunication and, physical. Your Off with your words.
If you have to be On verbally then you can use innuendo or NLP.
My conclusion is that a Venesian artist should always practice “Solid game”.
Solid game is hard. Always consistently work on your value and, open. Do the numbers. It will make you better at your set and, reading the women. Numbers overcomes all.
On value, hit the gym loose the weight. Keep it off. Stop drinking.
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