There are some basic truths, I’ve learnt from chatting up women on the street.
The power of subcommunication. Being in the moment with your thoughts and, expressing them through the implied.
That authenticity or spontaneity is your VIBE.
Underneath that is your STATE.
Clearing your mind of the past and future. Expressing whatever comes into it in that moment is key.
The moment comes and the moment goes. A new moment comes and it goes again. You have to let go of that fleeting moment and embrace the new one just as quickly as the old one came and went. This is called being in the now. Being in the moment.
I noticed that women are designed to read facial expressions far better than men.
I think women are attracted to men who have the look of ‘now’.
This is the basis of attraction.
Think a wicked thought about her as you look into her eyes. See that thought crystalize in her eyes. Thats without saying anything.
If you have to say something sexual, infer it. Inference is more powerful then stating it.
Let her draw her own conclusions. Let her imagination run wild. It will do all the work for you. She will then connect those fantasies to you.
Had a date 1 coffee filter date with a K Japanese girl.
1. Deep connection = tick
2. Lead = tick
3. Eyes = tick
4. Verbal escalation;
● Men and women be friends: tick
● Why are you single: had a boyfriend
● What type of guys do you date: tick
● 3 things I like in a girl: ASD on second hair smell attempt. Shoes to underwear verbal was a pass. Lipstick test was a fail as she had a mask on.
● What do you do for fun: tick
● What are your guilty pleasures: tick
● When was last time you had sex: “2 years ago with my boyfriend”
Then I started talking about vibrators.
She was pretty ok with that question. Big tick.
Sat down at the park bench side by side. Proximity was of. Legs crossed away from me so negative body language. So I lead her back to the train station. I decided to ‘Push’ her away and, cut the date short. I lead her to the train station, said I have to go, nice to meet you, gave her a kiss on the cheek. She allowed it, green light. She was suprised and, wanted to continue to follow but I said if you go that way, that will take you home, I have to go.
Looked nothing like her. Date was a HB 8. Can you see the nipple!