R selection Theory – A Player's Journey Blog

Subcommunication

Posted on 26/12/2022 by ozidaygamer in Instant dates, Mindwank

There are some basic truths, I’ve learnt from chatting up women on the street.

The power of subcommunication. Being in the moment with your thoughts and, expressing them through the implied.

That authenticity or spontaneity is your VIBE.

Underneath that is your STATE.

Clearing your mind of the past and future. Expressing whatever comes into it in that moment is key.

The moment comes and the moment goes. A new moment comes and it goes again. You have to let go of that fleeting moment and embrace the new one just as quickly as the old one came and went. This is called being in the now. Being in the moment.

I noticed that women are designed to read facial expressions far better than men.

I think women are attracted to men who have the look of ‘now’.

This is the basis of attraction.

Think a wicked thought about her as you look into her eyes. See that thought crystalize in her eyes. Thats without saying anything.

If you have to say something sexual, infer it. Inference is more powerful then stating it.

Let her draw her own conclusions. Let her imagination run wild. It will do all the work for you. She will then connect those fantasies to you.

Remember, inference is King.

Sexual Tension

Posted on 29/11/202229/11/2022 by ozidaygamer in Mindwank

This is my first post in a while so apologies. Just been working and, doing lot’s of Front Stops 😁

Had some dates with some stunners. I’ve also been trying to maintain or up my value (artificially inflate it thru game).

I was also trying out some Mode 1 stuff over the phone for the seduction stage. Trying to bypass the dating part.

Here’s what I have learnt so far.

A.) Ross Jefferies is right about bursting the sexual tension bubble when you overtly talk about sex.

B.) Love Drop aka Chris Odom is correct about the key being ‘spontaneity’ is what women want when it comes to the F close.

C.) Love Drop is correct about women wanting ‘plausible deniability’ when it comes to the F close.

D.) Nick Krauser is correct about women having a ‘Timeline’. LMR occurs when you are pushing for the F close ahead of her timeline. Or as Mystery says “the game is played in comfort”.

This is where I think Mode One can work. Hear me out for a moment. I’m now about to make the arguement supporting the ‘Radical Honesty’ concept with girls.

I think about 15% of women are R select. With those type of girls I found overt sexualised speech can be used as Attraction material. It does work to attract the girl but you still have to do comfort when you meet her. You still have to have some value which shows up or doesn’t on the F date.

R select women still have their timeline and, it’s different for all women.

R select women know your casual sex material and, not a prospect for a relationship before the lay has occured. They might wiggle of the hook if a relationship type guy comes along. Hence missing out on the lay.

The R select girl still has to be somewhat available. (Krauser “most girls are not available”.)

How to pick the R select type on the street?

Long floppy hand hold. Allows the proximity to be encroached. Direct eyes plus smile and maybe giggle. Laughs at everything you say.

Note: I have not tried Mode one on the street. I don’t recommend it. I have tried it over the phone on R select girls who have invested on the text first.

Date night

Posted on 29/12/202105/09/2022 by ozidaygamer in Field Report, First Dates

Tomorrow I have a Date 1 lined up with an American HB8.

Street stop: Hand was floppy, proximity was allowed and, eyes were on.

She also invested.

Over the texting, she invested alot and, asked me out for a date. Don’t know if the polarity is fucked or not. Will find out on the date as I’m gonna run seduction only.

Why you ask seduction only….!!!

Why not deep connection and, comfort like what’s written in The Mystery Method.

Mystery’s 7 hour rule on comfort covers about 2 dates, maybe 3.

Like cricket, your bowling and, batting according to the weather conditions. In particular the pitch.

Let me give the analogy first and, then the Daygame theory.

In cricket if the pitch is wet then the ball will bounce of the surface in all soughts of wild directions. Hence making it hard for the batsman to score runs and, stay in.

This makes it easier for the bowler to get the batsman out and, stop runs from being scored.

Of course if the opposite weather conditions are true then the dry pitch suits the batsman and, not the bowler.

In Daygame there’s this concept of R/K theory. K meaning the girl doesn’t root outside a monogamous relationship.

R meaning she does.

I think this girl is a yes girl. I think she’s R.

Like Tom Torero says in his book Street Hustle “You got to burn your boats mission”.

He means fearless, relentless escalation. As the PUA Sixty Years of Challenge wrote.

I’ll let you know how I go. That is whether I crash and, burn or, I hit a home run?!

Dichotomy between Sex and, Love

Posted on 03/05/202123/08/2022 by ozidaygamer in Lay Report, Mindwank

Hi there committed Daygamer,

I just had my first +1 on the weekend. I won’t go into the details but just to say yeah Daygame works.

What I learnt from the total experience of doing Daygame to get the lay is that Daygame is hard work.

I think the thing that keeps me going in Daygame to plough on through the rejection’s and, failures is the bigger picture.

Why?

To serve ‘love’. When I lead with love it makes my vibe better for teasing and, challenging. It makes the dates better. It gives you a reason to push through to the first 1 – 4 opens then stick with it for the next hour or two.

It basically gives you a big reason to do Daygame consistantly over a long period of time.

This brings me to the dichotomy of seeking sex first (R select game) not love.

What happens is when you vibe of love but present yourself as the R select guy for casual sex it ultimately leads to love after the sex is done and, dusted (after the +1).

So here is the irony of it all, if you present yourself as K select (nice guy beta male) you don’t get rewarded by the girl which is ‘love’. Obviously this is a romantic view most guys dream up in their thick skulls.

But here’s the thing, if you lead with R select (casual sex only), you end up with a choice of showing love afterwards or just making it a one night stand.

Put simply, the girl rewards you and, wants to lock you down for love or I could be wrong, provider status?!

Who knows!

Like a rubics cube for every 1 problem you solve, you create another two or three or four!!!

But I got the +1 and, that’s all that matters right.

R selection game

Posted on 17/04/202123/08/2022 by ozidaygamer in Field Report, Instant dates, Mindwank

Went R select today, did 12 sets, got 1 Instant date and, 1 Instagram. About another 4 x 4 – 5 minute sets, close but no cigar.

Instant date went like this;

5 to 7 min set, then coffee close, about 15 to 20 minutes on coffee date, then lead to walk in the park, around 40 minutes on that.

Then lead her to bar, 1 drink each. Couldn’t convince her for a second so I time bridged her with number close.

Exchanged numbers and, IOD’d her away to another day (date).

Kino ladder ticks and, misses:

1. Fingers (ring) = tick

2. Compare tans = tick

3. Floppy test = Orange

4. Ear lobes (ear rings) = tick

5. Eye fucking = tick

6. Shoulders = tick

7. Ankle lift (shoe check) = tick

8. Sat side by side = Orange

9. Close distance = Red light

10. Hand hold to kiss test = Red

Summary of idate, I was in and, out with Torero Toe move over the course of the entire interaction because she kept creating tiny distance then letting me have it.

I felt she was off and, on all the time but she was on more when in a dimly lit bar setting.