I’ve been on a few dates now and I think I can spot a timewaster.
Try this next time your on a date. Go quiet. Say nothing. Silence will give you the answer.
She will do one of three things;
1. She will continue to talk alot like a motor mouth and not allow you to fill the gaps. When she runs out of things to say she will then vacuum you. This is her trying to qualify you. It’s a subtle frame battle. =
Shes a timewaster.
2. She asks you a question to fill the silence. This means she is a genuine girl who is genuinely attracted to you. She will usually have a two way conversation with you. =
Maybe or Yes girl
3. She does not invest. She allows the silence to continue. Shes ok with the silence dragging on for a long time. =
No girl
This type of girl has either got a boyfriend and is not willing to upgrade OR she is not attracted to you. She just wants free attention from a push over beta.
Now with that knowledge in mind, go forth and multiply 😁
When you manage to get phone number’s this is what happens:
Half ghost you,
The other half of that half are Time waster’s.
Leave’s you with only a fraction left over that are direct with you and, don’t play games.
Alan Roger Currie has a book on this subject matter about Time Waster’s. His book is called ‘No Free Attention: How Women use The Possibility of Sex to Manipulate Naive and, Lustful Men’.
Red Quest has a blog post on this subject as well about how alot of daygamer’s experience this phenomenon alot on dates especially with girls in their early 20’s. Seem’s to be most common.
So how does a daygamer screen out Time Waster’s?
What I have noticed is that when you do teasing and, challenging you end up with alot of Time Waster’s.
Here’s the trick, if you do sexual tension at the beginning of the set, I found you screen out alot of Time Waster’s and, end up with a smaller amount of phone number’s but you also end up with more Instant Dates which end with solid numbers.
According to Alan Roger Currie’s book you have 2 types of Time Waster’s.
One is a normal type and, the other is a cock teaser.
I found that if you do sexual tension at the beginning of the set (see Steve Jabba for how to do sexual tension) you cull out the normal type of Time Waster.
But you are still left with the cock teaser Time Waster.
And the direct girls who are up for it, sex that is.
Lesson’s learnt after 300 sets in field?
1. Do Maradona move to test for sexual tension as soon as possible right at the beginning of set.
2. If you get a handshake do sexual tension (again check out Steve Jabba to learn how to do sexual tension).
3. Then go into your teasing routine as normal and, rapport, qualification etc.
4. Over text messaging vacuum for 24 to 48 hours before sending the 2nd text, then call her.
5. Get her on the phone, rack up comfort time and, seduction both at the same time over the phone. (If you wanna know how to do seduction over the phone just send me an email: paulnic510@gmail.com
Now that your armed with more knowledge to your arsenal….go forth and, multiply?!
I mean conquer.
Model from the weekend in a 2 set, similar to her but younger
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