Podcast 3 is about Sexual Market Value and, Looks Money and Fame.
This podcast is a follow on from podcast no.1 about taking action.
1. Pickup as a trojan horse
2. Torero’s 10 commandments
Podcast 1. Taking Action
1. Say what you see and ‘twist’ it.
2. Say what your thinking in the moment.
3. Say what your feeling in the moment.
4. Recognise that the moment comes….and it goes. Grab onto the new moment and, express it out loud.
Women are attracted to men who freely emote verbally.
These are my thoughts on Mode One and, Pickup.
I think most women’s threshold for “comfort” sit somewhere in the middle.
To paraphrase Steve Jabba “Every womens comfort level is different. Some need more comfort, some need less. Some don’t need any comfort at all and, will just fuck”.
The Mystery Method writes “To begin with Seduction first is Fools mate”.
I think only a tiny number of girls are “Yes girls” which Mode One would work on. Even then they are gonna want some comfort afterwards and, would probarly ghost you once you go down a gear to comfort building.
All the girls I fucked on the first or second date ended up ghosting me afterwards.
I think it’s because of “Buyers Remorse”.
The pro’s and, con’s of both sides of the coin?
Overt direct Mode one communication;
Pros = Filters out Time Wasters. Filters for Yes girls.
Cons = Buyers Remorse. She wriggles of the hook before you’ve fucked her, a “Maybe girl” that is.
Covert Indirect Direct communication;
Pros = Comfort building, ongoing sex, socially acceptable.
Cons = Waste time on dates to nowhere with Timewaster types.
Ross Jeffries said “You burst the sexual tension bubble when you go overt”.
He said “women are attracted to sexual tension”. “Women are attracted to the anticipation of getting laid”.
My thoughts are this;
We are talking about biology and, millions of years of human evolution.
As The Mystery Method book states;
Back when we were cave men. The women wants to know that if she gets knocked up by you. That cave man you with a big stick will hang around to protect her and, the bun in her oven from the saba tooth tiger.
She doesn’t know it to be sure, she just feels it. Buyers remorse. It’s hard wired into her hind brain. Millions of years of evolution.
That’s why Tom Torero said “The crem dela crem of pickup is somewhere between indirect and, direct language”.
Indirect, Direct. Or it should be refered to as Direct, Indirect.
That is your Direct with your eyes, subcommunication and, touch. Your Indirect with your verbals.
Your On with your subcommunication and, physical. Your Off with your words.
If you have to be On verbally then you can use innuendo or NLP.
My conclusion is that a Venesian artist should always practice “Solid game”.
Solid game is hard. Always consistently work on your value and, open. Do the numbers. It will make you better at your set and, reading the women. Numbers overcomes all.
On value, hit the gym loose the weight. Keep it off. Stop drinking.
Could be your next date?!
As everyone knows Tom Torero has passed away and, is no longer with us.
God rest his soul.
This post is about my thoughts on the guy and, what I thought about him when I was learning Daygame.
Being an older guy and, recently new to pickup, I’ve only really been doing it on and off for about 1 and, half years now.
These are my thoughts.
The guy was genuinely telling the truth with all his material that he sold online.
I never knew the guy or met him but, I think he wanted every guy to genuinely succeed with their dating and, love life.
He was the real deal, no bullshit when it came to giving out real advice on the truth of male female intersexual dynamics.
What I’ve learnt about people over my life time is that most people can’t handle the TRUTH.
I think that’s why alot of people in and, outside the pickup community (if there is one) tried to discredit him.
We might not like to hear the raw TRUTH but that’s what made Tom credible on the subject matter of Daygame.
He appeals too guys like myself who had written themselves off with the opposite sex.
Only to discover Tom’s teaching’s and, raw TRUTH was I able to get myself back in the game again.
As Tom said himself, he was into the purity of the science behind male female dynamics and, the redpill.
As he said himself, you can’t twist the REAL science and, redpill truths to suit your agenda.
That’s what I LOVE about Tom. His honesty on the subject matter.
The only other guy who has that same integrity is Nick Krauser.
Because I’m new to Daygame, I’m sure there are alot of other London Daygame guys who go quitely under the radar who don’t get a mention but have contributed to Tom’s work including Nick Krauser.
It really is sad to see that a bloke has to die to finally get the recognition he deserves.
I’m still in shock from the loss of a great man who took on the left and, the world with his Daygame adventures.
He showed us what is possible when we venture out of our comfort zones and, face our own fears.
His book ‘Street Hustle’ (credit some of it to Nick Krauser and, the London daygame guys) is by far an outstanding text book for all the fundamentals and, principals of Daygame ever put out.
That’s just my opinion. Like Dirty Harry says “Opinions are like assholes and, everybody’s got one”.
I think the best way to keep Tom’s legacy alive is think of what Tom would do everytime you sweat it out in the gym to maintain your value or do a front stop / side stop / karate stop etc.
Every date you achieve etc, think of Tom.
Yes do Daygame for yourself first but think of Tom Torero when your out on the streets grinding away.
Just to leave you with a little excerpt from his book ‘Daygame’ that spoke volumes of his charm and, charisma that not only seduced women but seduced us students of he’s.
“Opened a hot leaflet girl in Leicester Square (giving flyers for a Brazil game in a pub), dressed in yellow and black. I said she was a bumble bee, nicer then wasps etc. Two minutes into the chat a bee landed on her….she screamed and ran off”.
Tomorrow I have a Date 1 lined up with an American HB8.
Street stop: Hand was floppy, proximity was allowed and, eyes were on.
She also invested.
Over the texting, she invested alot and, asked me out for a date. Don’t know if the polarity is fucked or not. Will find out on the date as I’m gonna run seduction only.
Why you ask seduction only….!!!
Why not deep connection and, comfort like what’s written in The Mystery Method.
Mystery’s 7 hour rule on comfort covers about 2 dates, maybe 3.
Like cricket, your bowling and, batting according to the weather conditions. In particular the pitch.
Let me give the analogy first and, then the Daygame theory.
In cricket if the pitch is wet then the ball will bounce of the surface in all soughts of wild directions. Hence making it hard for the batsman to score runs and, stay in.
This makes it easier for the bowler to get the batsman out and, stop runs from being scored.
Of course if the opposite weather conditions are true then the dry pitch suits the batsman and, not the bowler.
In Daygame there’s this concept of R/K theory. K meaning the girl doesn’t root outside a monogamous relationship.
R meaning she does.
I think this girl is a yes girl. I think she’s R.
Like Tom Torero says in his book Street Hustle “You got to burn your boats mission”.
He means fearless, relentless escalation. As the PUA Sixty Years of Challenge wrote.
I’ll let you know how I go. That is whether I crash and, burn or, I hit a home run?!
I’ve been doing Daygame for about 1 full year now and, I realised something today when I was sarging…..
listen for the topic and, riff off, of it until you hook?!.!?!
I’m a fucking dumb ass!
Just thought you should know.
Was hooking like mad today which included a early 20’s russian broad.
I was in Daygame heaven today.
Younger then her….Russian.
I just wanted to make a post about the ‘London Day Game Model’. In particular the “London front stop”.
I was out sarging on saturday and, I was trying to perfect the ‘front stop’.
I discovered 3 things that gets over looked.
1. CUT IN; You get eye from the side as you wheel around, hand comes out for stop signal, you say “excuse me”.
This is the important part coming up….you break the girls momentum with the eye contact so she’s about to stop. This is were you cut into square up to the girl so your front on. VERY BIG LEARNING POINT.
This is the point right here and, what smashes your AA and, increases your confidence on the street. This I believe is what seperates the men from the boys and, makes you a true ‘Daygamer’.
2. A small number of girls will crack a smile and, be beaming with excitement with whats about to come out of your mouth (the mild compliment) before you have delivered it.
Note; this suggests a “yes girl” or a “strong maybe girl”.
3. If you have to catch up to a girl that triggers your “fuck she’s hot sense” then walk up to her and, try to close the distance before you start your run up.
This is so that the approach is more under the radar and, doesn’t trigger a cock block or white knight calling the cops on you. (Yes I have had that happen and, I’m still here, still alive and, day gaming).
That’s it; over and out from the aussie dude daygamer.
Credit Tom Torero and, Nick Krauser for the London front stop.
What I’ve been learning since I’ve started Daygame is the power of the push (acknowledge Tom Torero).
Attraction is only done at the beginning of the set to hook the fish (girl).
The rest of the interaction up until you sleep with her is the push.
Does the push work? Yes, it does, only to well : )
Which brings me to the next conclusion. Relationships are adversarial but in a covert way.
Just think of the Cold war between the yanks (US of A) and, the Ruski’s (Russians).
No side ever went overt with their intentions to nuke the other. It was all covert.
That’s what I think relationships are like with women, if you use the power of the push to build attraction.